I can spell supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
Monday, Jul 25, 2005
Mary Poppins hasn’t knocked on the door yet. She hasn’t even bothered to call. I checked the phone book, but she has an unlisted number. I don’t know why. So, I climbed up the stairs, hoping that there was enough hot water left after a few loads of whites. But it didn’t matter since my Calgon was gone, the last bit used up on the Saturday-night-make-the-kids-look-like-they’re-always-this-clean-for-church baths. Note to self: there is nobody to take me away.
But at least the kids are squeaky and presentable to the public.
Who will deliver me from this body of death? I’m not the first woman to experience all morning, all afternoon, all evening sickness, but the women of old didn’t have blogs to advertise this fact. They didn’t even have microwave fettuccine alfredo. I’m not sure how they did it.
Perhaps without the benefit of modern medicine, women of old resorted to other means such as a “this too shall pass” attitude and community? I don’t know. What other choice is there but to get through it? But as I’ve been groomed by my culture to focus on what’s in everything for me—which is the antithesis of an eternal perspective and real community—I find myself wanting to swim upstream but flailing and floundering.
For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! ~Romans 7:22-25a
And so it goes. I look forward to That Day, and in the meantime, I keep watch for a lady with an umbrella and a spoonful of sugar.
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As a mother of many who just had a miscarriage that almost left my children without a mother, I just wanted to comment. I know that you are suffering from morning sickness. I know how horrible that is for I sure suffered from it myself to the point I had to take Zofran for it starting at five weeks. Zofran didn’t help and I was green morning, noon and night anyway. What I want to say is be so very thankful for this morning sickness. Change your attitude about it. It is by the grace of the Father that you are still carrying your baby and feeling this sick. Pretty soon you will be over it and feeling the baby kick. I complained and complained about my morning sickness and wallowed in self pity on the couch. I have gotten over it, but I won’t be feeling my baby move within me. She has gone to dance at the feet of Jesus!
It is devistating to find out your child has died within you! It is devistating to have to wait to miscarry while carrying a dead baby inside. It is devistating to have to leave your other children by ambulance to be carried to the hospital for severe loss of blood. It is devistating to hear that you haven’t passed anything with all that blood and now will require a D&E. It is devistating to wait for the procedure while bleeding and weakness take over your body at the hospital. And to not remember saying goodbye to your other children while they brought you by ambulance to the hospital….and to remember all the dumb feelings and resentment you had against your mornings sickness. And to feel the feelings of deep loneliness the days, weeks, months after the loss of the baby. Empty arms on the due date…empty baby clothes, empty baby things….empty.
Amy you are so very blessed to have morning sickness, it is mostly a signal that your body is growing a babe inside. My morning sickness went away. I felt good and attributed it to the Zofran. It wasn’t so…I just wanted you to know that we can relate. Been through it and made it to the other side. You will too! May God bless you with a new breathing living moving babe to hold. Relish in this pregancy, all of it. It won’t be long before your fertility is going, going, gone and you will not feel the sickness or hold a baby of your own. Then you will think back to these days on the couch and wish for them once again.
Comment by Christi (July 25, 2005 @ 11:34 am )
just surfed across your blog– just wanted to let you know I enjoyed reading it!
Comment by Mollie (July 25, 2005 @ 12:24 pm )
Been finding links to your site all over the place and had to check it out. I remember that pregancy sickness was harder when I had to keep going with small children. That’s why moms usually aren’t allowed to get sick. wishing you the best.
Comment by Wendy (July 25, 2005 @ 12:36 pm )
As a mom to 3 little ones under age 3 and 18 weeks pregnant I can so hear ya!!! I am just now over the hump of illness day and night. The Lord will carry you through - I was so thankful for drive thru’s and a husband who was willing to eat a lot of boxed dinners, meat free, while his wife couldn’t stand the thought of eating meat, or poultry or much of anything else but Marie Callander’s potato soup.
May our God of grace sustain you and your baby growing within you!
Anna
Comment by Anna Peterson (July 25, 2005 @ 1:01 pm )
Amy, are there people in your church who can help? Don’t be afraid to ask for help! Most women would be delighted to do a little here and there and the effort it would take them would be little compared to the blessing it would be to you. I have 8 kids and I wish when mine were younger I would’ve asked more for help. Pray for help! God knows even your smallest needs!
Comment by kerri (July 25, 2005 @ 3:59 pm )
Wishing you were closer cause I’d be SO there to spruce you up a bit! And I understand how hard it is to be thankful for the nausea monster who sits and mocks you day after day after day. It begins to affect the brain. And it makes every day longer than last. But you WILL get there, my friend. See my post today about Gold Medals. Before you know it, that Gold Medal will be in your arms!
Comment by Lyn (July 25, 2005 @ 4:05 pm )
Amy, I know how rough that can be! I like Psalm 16 during such times. It’s also great for labor ;)!
God bless!
Emily
momy to four, five and under
Comment by emily (July 25, 2005 @ 4:21 pm )
Notwithstanding that the loss of a child, under any circumstances, must indeed be devastating, I’m sure everyone sympathises with your illness. Of course it’s comforting to remember that you will have a lovely baby at the end of all of this, but that really doesn’t make constant physical misery any easier to bear. You clearly have as positive an attitude as one can to this.
I have to add that, while I know this is not the general attitude of the ladies who frequent this blog, I chose not to have children (I never felt that God meant me to be a mother, nor my marriage to sustain children), and am just as glad when I read things of this nature!
I hope your other children continue to be supportive and helpful to you.
Comment by Mrs. P. (July 25, 2005 @ 4:58 pm )
Christi, I have never experienced a miscarriage, but have prayed throught the emotional pain with a couple of my friends that have. I can only bear witness to what appears to be, as you described, a most devastating experience.
Still, I think it is only fair to allow Amy to express both her excitement for her pregnancy, her recognition of Christ’s love and the eternal perspective of our live’s hear on this earth, but also the frustration and exhaustion of the sickness that robs her energy in a household already full of children and a husband to tend to on a daily basis.
God allows the differences in our lives to shape us through the conviction of His Holy Spirit. I believe that Amy is both sensitive to her blessing, as well as acknowledging the temporal of morning sickness.
Amy, I pray you will move out of this stage of morning sickness and that you will have the energy you need to continue in your role as daughter of the King, wife to your ‘rocket scientist’ and mother to your precious crew.
Comment by Heather (July 25, 2005 @ 5:26 pm )
I second everything that was said by Heather.
Amy, I pray that you will find some relief today, and that things will continue to improve day after day!
A frequent reader who has no idea how I found you,
Rebekah
Comment by Rebekah (July 25, 2005 @ 5:43 pm )
Amy, I apologize if my tone sounded harsh. I must have gotten a little emotional somewhere along the line and then stumbled here and made the post. Could you please forgive me?
Also, please delete my comment if it causes you hurt feelings as I really,truely wasn’t setting out to do that. I didn’t realize how it sounded when I was posting my story. I just wanted to express how blessed you are to be having morning sickness.
Other ladies, I did not mean for that to come out the way it did and I regret ever sharing those words. Forgive me also please? I am far from mean and nasty in real life and not very eloquent in my speech.
Comment by Christi (July 25, 2005 @ 7:01 pm )
No more morning sickness, Amy. I mean it!
(Does anybody want a peanut?)
Okay, sorry, I just wanted to lighten things up a bit. It was getting sort of heavy around here.
Comment by Paula (July 25, 2005 @ 8:10 pm )
Amy,
{{{{Amy}}} You are sooo loved girl!
Aren’t you blessed to have such lovely readers of your blog?
I’m so glad you have retained your wonderfully quirky sense of humor in such draining time. I too experience the same horrendous morning sickness with each child and I too sometimes cry out in despair (okay, it’s probably all day long sometimes) with the frustration of it all. People ask all the time why I keep doing this (I only have 4!) and I just tell them that a little sickness now is worth God’s precious blessing in the end! Take care girlie…as we know, it WILL get better. God is good!
And for Christie…{{{{hugs}}}}
Comment by Michelle in TX (July 25, 2005 @ 8:43 pm )
Hear, hear! All is well, my friends. Christi, as one who has experienced both first and second trimester miscarriages, I empathize with you. I am sorry for your loss. The pain is raw now. No offense taken.
There have been times that I thought I’d lose the baby by vomiting him/her because of the intensity and relentlessness of it. But in the end, I always find it a small token for an eternal gift. (But make no mistake, I DO NOT forget about it.)
Regarding asking for help, does “I think I’m going to die…” count? Me thinks maybe I should work on my wording. Tonight we had baked potatos and salad-that-comes-in-a-bag. No school. If you want clean clothes, fish them out of the dryer. Paper plates, that kind of thing…
Cheeri-o all, and to all a good night!
Comment by Amy (July 25, 2005 @ 8:46 pm )
AMY!!!!
I get REAL sick too! I did take Zofran and it did help me to keep from barking all day..still felt sick All day…One thing that DID HELP……Extra IV fluids from the Midwife. I would do it again if God ever blesses me with All day sickness again.
She just gave me 1 bag over about 90 minutes in office or at home. For some reason though I think I am drinking enough I really am not and in the summer it is easy to get dehydrated…
Comment by Robin Kre (July 26, 2005 @ 12:48 am )
Thank God for a sense of humor…you are a great example to me…
~Karen
Comment by Karen (July 26, 2005 @ 3:20 am )
‘I’ want to be one of Amy’s lovely readers too!!! :::jumps up and down::: Sweetie, it is suffering. I’m praying for you in this God-appointed suffering. It doesn’t matter if it’s huge pain or small pain, you need the strength of God to carry on as a mother and wife and sister. So many love you. I’m certain we will all keep you in our prayers. Very big hugs for you. {{{{XO}}}} I love your writings here and your heart.
Comment by Cynthia (July 26, 2005 @ 9:04 am )
Amy _ I’m with you, girl! I thought I was going to miss the porcelain train this time around:) The first 12 weeks went well with just a little nausea - nothing compared to last time! But then week 13 comes along (just when I’m “supposed” to feel all better) and suddenly I can’t keep anything down. So we’re doing paper plates, too. And easy suppers and the kids are having string cheese and deli ham for lunch. Anything to make this easier:) Meanwhile I’m praying for both of us that it won’t last long!
Comment by Shannon Miller (July 26, 2005 @ 11:09 am )
Ladies, why was I supposed to want children again??
Comment by Mrs. P. (July 26, 2005 @ 11:37 am )
Amy, Relating to you here in NC.
I’m at week 16 now and my all day long sickness has turned into queasy if I don’t eat, which is much better. The wierd thing is, though, I can’t figure out what I want to eat! Nothing tastes right or sounds good to me even still.
However, just as I was starting to feel better… I now have a broken arm! So it’s also paper plates and no school here, go ahead and sleep in your clothes b/c that way we won’t have to do as much laundry tomorrow. We aren’t going anywhere anyway, b/c I can’t drive… who wants to, though when it’s nearly 100 degrees everyday! I can’t imagine how hot it is there…
Let me know when you find Mary Poppins.
Comment by Meg (July 26, 2005 @ 11:50 am )
Interesting…I’ve been searching for Mary Poppins of late. She’s not been found in my neck of the woods either.
Sorry you are not feeling so well. I will be praying for you.
Comment by Bethany (July 26, 2005 @ 11:54 am )
Christi –> ((HUGS))
Amy, just tell Mr. Provider you need more Olive Garden.
heh heh
*smerk*
Comment by Heather L. Sanders (July 26, 2005 @ 2:24 pm )
Or Carrabba’s! Unless that would be a waste
Take care Amy, God Bless.
Comment by Janet (July 26, 2005 @ 4:02 pm )
Your post cracked me up, Amy. I can so relate…
‘Cept I’m nursing mine, now, and on my way to that slim girlish figure again (nanny nanny boo boo!).
…At least for the next 10 months, anyway, ’til God plants the next one…
*grin*
Keep up the good work, girl. Sloggin’ for The Kingdom takes many forms and certainly allows for over-use of paper plates.
Love from Alaska!
Comment by Molly (July 26, 2005 @ 8:24 pm )
I didn’t have much help when I was pregnant–my husband’s job took us too far from family, and for some reason the little church we attended just wasn’t up to needy me.
I prayed for help, for relief from sickness, for a better attitude, for Mary Poppins, you name it. God said, “I am sufficient.”
My verse?–”I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.”–Psalm 27:13-14
Comment by ruth (July 26, 2005 @ 8:41 pm )
Mrs. P, you just hamg around and you will see what makes this parenting thing so wonderful. If you watched someone studying for their doctorate, or hung around a concert pianist and heard them playing scales and exercises for hours on end you might say, ‘who needs this boredom?’ too. Or like Lyn says, watch an athlete in training, ‘what torture and deprivation!’ It IS hard, seemingly endless drudgery and pain for a time, but that is the nature of things. The more work and difficulty the more blessed and appreciated the result.
God bless you, Amy and Meg, may you come through with a bigger picture of Christ and His all-sufficiency on the other side of this.
Comment by Cheri (July 27, 2005 @ 5:34 am )
Wow! So many people on here are pregnant right now! That is so fantastic! I shall add my name to the list. I’m just coming out of the first tri-mester, but last week I was right with you Amy. I’m impressed there is food to put on the paper plates and clean clothes to be found in your dryer. It is certainly harder this time around with a little one to take care of. No four hour naps for me these days.
But as was pointed out, nausea is a good sign. Hard to remember that at times, but there it is. And unlike so many toils we face in this life, there is something so amazing waiting at the end. I have to say I think I might be even more exciting with this second baby than the first because I know what is coming and how truly amazing it is. I feel so blessed to be a mom.
So ladies, I’m with you all. I shall pray for quick deliverance for us from this sickness and for healthy babies on the other side.
Comment by tiffany (July 27, 2005 @ 2:00 pm )
Hi Amy,
I just found your blog not too long ago. I also get all-day all night sickness when pregnant. This time around (I have one 2 yr old son who is “all boy” if you know what I mean) was much, much harder. I decided to take the Unisom my midwife was suggesting, and it helped. Made me sleepy as anything, but I could function somewhat. I could feed the boy instead of having dh have to drive home from work at lunch and feed him (or have me vomit). I could eat a few things. I just had to force myself to keep awake and moving all day, which seemed marginally better than vomiting all day.
But it really is hard. I have such a hard time relying on God at these times. I prayed for patience and good humor, but I think I was anything but patient and good-humored. I think I just whined too much to anyone who would listen!
I really admire women who have a lot of kids, especially if they aren’t the “I feel great when pregnant!” types. I don’t mean that in the patronizing, worldy way people say it. I also have a very bad back, so pregnancy is really difficult for me: once the sickness passes, the pain begins. My dh would like 4 kids or even more, and maybe God would too, but my selfish heart can’t even bear the thought of 2 more pregnancies. I just say “we’ll see”…
So don’t fret. Someone out here whinesto God and her husband, probably much more than you do, despite the best of intentions and prayers for patience, self-denial, and “taking up one’s cross”.
((HUGS))
Comment by jill (July 28, 2005 @ 6:39 am )
Jill,
Your honesty is refreshing to me, as your story sounds so much like my own. When the vomiting ends, I have a month or two before the intense back pain begins. I’m not sure if it’s because of a 5′2 frame or a tipped uterus, but I am in great pain in the final month especially.
I am not too far ahead of you, but I remember thinking that it could not get any harder than when I had 3 children aged 3 and under. And I was right! (Uh, so far, at least.) I want to assure you that as you train your two-year-old to love God and obey you, you will reap the fruit of that. And no, you don’t have to wait until Glory. I mean to say, a house full of schoolaged children and under is not the same as preschoolers and babies. My seven-year-old is responsible, cheerful, and a huge help. He is able to make simple meals that keep the little ones filled until dad comes home with take-out. Both the five and seven year olds can change the baby’s diaper, and they all pitch in with cleaning.
Hang on, my friend, the nausea and hardship may not get better, but the circumstances do. And can you imagine what a 12-year-old could do? I know it seems like this stage lasts forever, but I promise that your two-year-old will not be two forever. It just seems like it.
Blessings,
Amy Scott
Comment by Response to Jill (July 28, 2005 @ 9:44 pm )
I am finally here with my eldest being 12, almost 13, hallelujah! (Whoops! Sorry…a bit of Pentecostalism slipped in there!)
But it’s a reward worth waiting for. Train them up, and they will be an utter delight and saving grace in your life when they are older. They all (6 of ‘em, between 12 and almost 2) cannot wait to hear that we’re going to have another baby, even though they know that Mommy’s out of commission for months and months. They PRACTICE for when I’ll be pg again! (My daughters track my cycles, if that isn’t funny enough!?) It really is a joy.
Hang tight. You’ll be there before you know it!
Comment by Karen (July 29, 2005 @ 2:54 am )
*Lol* Karen that is so fantastic! What an encouragement.
Same to you Amy. Even though I am sad to see my little one growing up and know that in a blink of an eye the one that is still growing inside of me will be big too, it is exciting thinking of what they are going to be like, how they are going to serve God, geez-even what their first word will be.
I love getting on here and reading things from the Mom who are further along in the training than I am. You all are really an encouragement towards Godliness.
Comment by tiffany (July 29, 2005 @ 11:04 am )
Amy,
Although I had very little “morning sickness” through three pregnancies, I did go through 4 rounds of chemo. My advice for nausea, then, might seem a little unconventional. One obvious tip is to be careful of any smells in the house: foods, flowers, perfumes, etc. The most useful thing I found, however, was the Food Network on cable TV. We got cable just for the chemo time! Other cancer patients I talked to agreed that somehow, seeing (but not smelling or tasting) the food helped satisfy cravings and lighten the nausea. Maybe a more “worldly” friend could tape some episodes for you.
Comment by Sheri (July 29, 2005 @ 9:04 pm )
One thing in response to Jill-God has never asked me to have a bunch all at once. It is always “just one more.” If you can make it through just this one, then you are well one your way!
Comment by kerri (July 29, 2005 @ 9:43 pm )
Sheri,
Watching The Food Network is advice I’d never heard. Bonus points for coming up with a new remedy! I shall watch an episode today and see what happens.
I hope you have beaten that cancer!
Comment by Amy (July 30, 2005 @ 11:58 am )
Amy, ladies:
You all are very kind and encouraging. Thanks so much for your thoughtful words. I’m sure it’s as you say–right now I’m 6 months along with #2 and having a hard time seeing the forest for the trees. I like the idea of just thinking “one at a time”.
Amy, I don’t know what would cause your pain, but I know for me it’s two things. I injured a lower back muscle in college, and I have hyperextendable joints. During pregnancy, the relaxin hormone makes my pelvic joints (hips, iliosacral joint in the rear end, and the pubic symphsis joint in the pubic area) all open up too much. My pelvis literally slides around in ways it shouldn’t. Thanks be to God, I have insurance coverage for chiropractic, otherwise I would literally be in a wheelchair. Thanks to 3 times a week treatments, I’m mobile and fine, just with constant back pain. If you have access to a chiro, I highly recommend it. Highly! Back pain is really crippling, isn’t it?
So God does comfort me in my pain by sending me what I need. What I want is no pain. I’m sure He sees that what I NEED is just what I’ve got.
Anyway, I don’t want to hijack your blog, but thanks for the kind words, and perhaps a chiro can help with your pain too.
Jill
Comment by jill (July 30, 2005 @ 8:57 pm )
Jill, Amy, and others in pain,
I too have really painful pregnancies thanks to that wonderful relaxin. Lying down is excruciating and I’m not able to walk for the first several minutes after I get up. Not to think I’m a total wimp, three of my four births were completely natural, so I think I have a pretty high threshold for pain. Anyway, I ‘ve learned recently that taking magnesium/calcium/manganese supplements will help alleviate if not eliminate the pain from that. It’s also supposed to help with restless leg syndrome and heart palpitations. I am not yet pregnant again since I heard about this so I haven’t had a chance to try it out, but there have been many successful testimonies for this on the Momys website. I hear that’s a popular place to visit for the guests of Humblemusings as well :). Anyway, hope this info will help and bless you all.
Emily
Momy to four ages 5,3,2,11 mos.
Comment by emily (July 31, 2005 @ 12:25 am )
Emily,
That sounds like how I feel right now. I didn’t realize that it wasn’t normal. Go figure. I can’t wait to try the supplements! (I should probably be getting more calcium anyway, so that works out great!)
Thanks!
Comment by tiffany (July 31, 2005 @ 9:52 pm )
marry poppins is a great movie expecialy on brodway!
Comment by dancer (December 30, 2006 @ 10:03 pm )
I think that is a really wierd word because nobody knows what that word means in real life i wonder why Marry Poppins even came up with that word in that movie
Comment by RAYLEEN (January 3, 2007 @ 8:41 pm )
Sometimes i really like that word supercalifragilisticexpialidocious on Marry POPPINS because she is really uneec and that show kicks me off my feet
Comment by RAYLEEN (January 6, 2007 @ 5:22 am )
I could spell Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious and I saw Mary Poppins on Brodway HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Comment by baily (July 4, 2007 @ 12:49 pm )