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Wednesday, Aug 3, 2005
Just like Carmon, I’m an agrarian sympathizer. But unlike Carmon, my capitalistic thinking needs a little twitching (that would be, uh, tweaking) before I can join the club. Many of you probably don’t know that I have agrarian aspirations, but I see it more as a means to accomplish other things that I consider valuable rather than just a goal in itself. I know that my thinking will change and mature as I (hopefully) grow in my understanding of it. Be easy on the novice.
When I began this site, the purpose was to keep in touch with family and friends while we were disconnected briefly from our conservative brotherhood. Yep, we were in California. While I’ve enjoyed meeting lots of people and even beginning new real-life friendships because of being online, it still presents a difficulty in saying all that I want to say. I did not know that other people would be interested in stopping by this little corner on the web, as I had not ever read another blog before my own. (This is a true story.)
This means that now I must write with discretion and with reservation. People who know me in real life know that the way I talk online is magnified to the tenth power in real life. That is to say, perhaps my use of discretion online would be better put to use in real life. Maybe then I wouldn’t have to practice my apologies in like manner as Anne Shirley.
I do not mind switching courses, and as I’ve pondered my time online here, I consider it still an appropriate use of my energy, even though the initial purpose has changed. When my responsibilities are such that it requires that I spend less time thinking to and amusing myself, I will close the site and not look back. Or if I humorously fall on my face in an attempt to save the day and my husband doesn’t continue to say, “Blog that,” then I will likewise shut down the site. Or if there is a better way to glorify God in the time that it takes to type this (at about 40 wpm), then I will do that.
Now, before this turns into naval-gazing, I’d like to connect the first paragraph with what I set out to say. Both my husband and I have agrarian aspirations for a couple reasons. I’d like to explain our thinking process, as there are still real life family and friends who read this site. (Though they will not admit this publicly by making a comment, I hear that I haven’t yet mortified anyone.) Another reason I’d like to think aloud through this is because it is easier to see flaws in our own process and motivations by breaking it down into parts. I think this might be valuable to our children in the future, and the analysis is good for our own future forward movements in the direction.
I received good advice from Rick Saenz when I lamented, “But how?!” in response to his series on Simple Living. He replied something like, “Take little steps. Just keep taking them in that direction.” This is akin to Elisabeth Elliot’s famous advice to, “Just do the next thing.” In the coming weeks, I’d like to think through some of these steps aloud, but I won’t necessarily do it in order. I’ll file all the posts under Living Simple.
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Well, Amy, as a non-family reader, I just wanted to thank you for your influence from your corner of the blog world. You have challenged me to think deeply before I post myself, and to use my words wisely (although I’ve had my “better” posts, as well as my pulling-my-foot-out-of-my-mouth posts).
I, too, benefitted deeply from Mr. Saenz’s Living Simply posts, and printed them all out to read to my husband. I look forward to reading your insights (and I’m sure you’ll have profound ones!).
May God bless you with your new focus and with the baby that He’s knitting inside of you.
Comment by Karen (August 3, 2005 @ 1:42 pm )
Amy,
Very cool, being an agrarian myself I can totally understand your agrarian yearnings. In fact, I would only encourage them. There is nothing quite so glamourous as children covered with barnyard mud. Adventures will be behind every door. There is certainly plenty of things to blog about living life as a Christian agrarian. But make no mistake, there are trials too. From a Christian perspective though we have a lot to rejoice about when facing such trials. I look forward to you articulating your thoughts.
Comment by KS Milkmaid (August 3, 2005 @ 5:30 pm )
I must be living too simple of a life … had to get out the dictionary (www.dictionary.com) and look up agrarian. Thanks for the vocabulary lesson. Like they (who are they anyway?) say, you learn something new every day.
Comment by justme (August 3, 2005 @ 8:03 pm )
I looked up agrarian. I’m still confused. You’ll remember from a previous comment that confused is my normal frame of mind so it hasn’t taken me by surprise.
What does one do as an agrarian? Identify furry white insects? Catalog various types of flora?
You’re making me nervous when you start talking about closing down. I’m writing an article about blogging for our local newspaper and your site is one that I’m recommending.
I think your experience with the GPS, combined with massive hormonal changes, has forced you to hallucinate about “Simple Living”. Pressure and Irritation make a pearl, it’s not a simple process.
Eat a turtle and drink a ginger ale and you’ll feel better tomorrow.
Comment by Tim (August 3, 2005 @ 10:29 pm )
Amy, I totally relate. My husband and I have desired soo much to move to the country, at times, I, in a less than uhh, patient way? But my husband has a business that requires a certain level of “call someone else to do it” city folk. He remodels houses. So, though I still haven’t gotten my farm house or mountain cabin, I have taken steps through the years to simplify and especially important to me, find other sources for food. I’ve been thinking about posting on my weblog about this too. I haven’t read Rick Saenz books yet, though I’ve been meaning too! I would like to see more discussion on how city people can be included (if they believe they can) in the agrarian vision. Because, some of us are just stuck here (by God’s divine providences of course) in the city! For now anyways!
Comment by kerri (August 3, 2005 @ 11:03 pm )
Amy Darlin. Come help sit at my table and help the kids snap green beans…then help me stay up til late at night canning them.
We’ll have an agrarian party. I’m livin’ the life. Ask away.
BTW, I found the same thing with my blog. I found myself trying to tailor the topics to EVERYONE who read (and, my relatives never left comments, either.) It was quite inhibiting…to the point, I asked myself…why am I spending time on this?
Comment by Holly (August 3, 2005 @ 11:14 pm )
For those who do not know what an agrarian is check out the deliberateagrarian.blogspot.com and homesteaderlife.blogspot.com. There are many links to other blogs discussing the issues related to living simlply and farming to glorify God. Herrick Kimball, the deliberate agrarian has a wonderful post defining terms. He has an awesome spot. Check it out.
Comment by KS Milkmaid (August 3, 2005 @ 11:16 pm )
Amy
Is there a Christian homesteading type blogging mom out there??
You know farm life…homeschooling….simple life stuff???
Thanks a lot
Robin
Comment by Robin Kre (August 4, 2005 @ 1:27 am )
Hi Amy, I hope you’re feeling better. How many weeks are you?
Last month our family read “Little Britches” by Ralph Moody. It’s his autobiography from age 8-11. My kids loved the book and are dying to live the farm life. The book is also great for helping start conversations about character. (Thanks to Mr. Saenz for recommending it!)
I too have caught the agrarian bug as a result of reading the above mentioned blogs. I’m praying and trusting God that we will be able to own and take dominion over a large hunk of land within two years.
I was raised in that lifestyle, but got away from it when I went to college. One downside is that we never really took vacations since it’s harder to find a neighbor to milk the goat or cow twice a day, collect the eggs, water stuff, etc. It’s not like leaving a key to the condo and having someone feed your fish. Then again, you don’t need as many vacations since you’re not living a frenzied life.
God Bless you and your beautiful family, please let us know how we can best pray for you.
Comment by Jo in Orlando (August 4, 2005 @ 1:38 am )
Sorry I put this in the Kitties topic. It goes here.
I was disturbed to hear the following:
“This means that now I must write with discretion and with reservation. People who know me in real life know that the way I talk online is magnified to the tenth power in real life.”
I wasn’t sure if the reservation was because of family or others, but I would say that this is your blog and you can say whatever you want! That is why the whole blog thing started. People blog because, on the internet, on their own web-page, they are free to write freely. For some people this is more of a good thing than it is for others. For you, it is a great thing! You have a lot of good things to say that would benefit all of your readers. There are also things I know that you believe that you have not yet shared…only hinted about.
Another example to drive my point home is that some people get their news exclusively from blog journalists because they are sure that the information they read won’t be slanted or written with reservations (like some main-stream journalist being afraid to lose his/her job). I regularly read this blog for truth without reservations.
I don’t know about everyone else (Speak up if you agree), but I vote for the tenth-power, real-life, humble, Amy. Blog that!
Comment by Jesse (August 4, 2005 @ 8:42 am )
I’m no one to talk. I have no blog. I have no blog because I don’t want to tell every person everything. I don’t want to be tied in my mind to a schedule of blog entries and blog answers. And I don’t want to add one more thing to my busy home school life. I figure if I want to spend that much time writing my mind out for others to see, I’d like to put it in a book…that antiquated tool, the book, which I fear will slowly vanish with the advent of the Kingdoms of Blog.
I’ve loved getting to know you and laughing with you. Lately I’ve been praying for you. You will be missed if the blog goes away, but what a joy it is to know you a little. Thanks Amy. Feel better soon.
Comment by Cynthia (August 4, 2005 @ 9:28 am )
1 entry found for navel-gazing.
na·vel-gaz·ing (nvl-gzng)
n. Slang
Excessive introspection, self-absorption, or concentration on a single issue: “The optimistic trend masks a looming problem, which has sent the travel industry into a renewed bout of navel-gazing” (Financial Times).
New word for me….Thank you!
Your spelling almost led me astray. I was thinking of a person watching ships out in a bay or of a desperate girl in Annapolis :-).
Comment by Jesse (August 4, 2005 @ 1:43 pm )
Tim, Send me a clip or a link, will ya?
KSMilkmaid, I notice that I’m the only non-agraian blogger on your blogroll. Is it because you saw my potential all along?
Kerri, We remodel houses too, except that we live in them while we do it… Rick Saenz doesn’t have a book yet, but the rumor is that there’s one in the works.
Robin Kre, Commenter #2/7 is who you’re looking for.
Jo, I’m 10 weeks. Did you know that I’ve lived in Orlando for 25 years? If you ever want to run into me, check the Don Pablos on 436.
Cynthia, See today’s post.
Jesse, As someone who has met the unrefined Humble Muse in real life, are you sure you want to say that? As far as my misspell there, it was a literary device, you see, because I live by the sea, and I thought it’d be more profitable to finish the task at hand than to stare at the cruise ships.
Ashlee, I’m thinking a more agarian life will lead to more blog material.
To all, I don’t want to leave anyone out since I read everything, but I can’t think of anything else to mention. Thanks for reading. And I hope to dive into the topic more next week.
Have I mentioned yet that I’m sick?
Comment by Amy (August 4, 2005 @ 10:41 pm )
I am in step with Thomas and am not as blessed as the rest of your readers. Christ said, “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet believe.” Some people just need a little extra convincing. I am sure, however.
They have cruise ships in the Navy?
Our family will be praying that you feel better soon.
Comment by Jesse (August 5, 2005 @ 6:45 am )
You have a great blog Amy. Yours is the first I read and kept reading. I am computer illiterate and a bit strapped for time. I could add more when I find a extra minute. Oh boy, you think you are sick now. Become an agrarian and smell the smells of the barnyard. There were many mornings, I stood in the milkshed heaving in between hooking up milkers. When I was pregnant with the twins, just the smell of cooking cheese made me sick. Keep writing!!!
Comment by KS Milkmaid (August 6, 2005 @ 1:04 am )
What do you mean about your capitalistic thinking needing tweaking?
Comment by Samantha (August 12, 2005 @ 10:19 am )
Samantha, my libertarian friend,
At some point, I need to concede that Wal-Mart (Low prices…Always) might not be the best place to put all my discretionary bucks. I’ll try to mention more when I talk about my My Favorite and Most Influential Book That’s Not The Bible. Hope you are enjoying your new house! (I enjoyed the pics you posted, but couldn’t say as such since your hosting service still thinks that I’m spam. Maybe it’s just a socialist and can auto-detect capitalists?)
Comment by Amy (August 12, 2005 @ 10:42 am )