Amish beginnings
Thursday, Aug 11, 2005
It seems like I have a lot of explaining to do. My email box is telling me that I should’ve included the whole wanna-be-agrarian speech in one post. But since naptime is only about an hour and a half (sometimes two hours, if you run them hard in the sun during the morning hours), I’m going to have to write in snippets. Either that or I’m open to an invite for a nice long dinner wherein I’ll tell you all about it.
It all started in my teenage years with my Amish fascination. I read every book I could about their culture, sewed authentic dresses using Amish patterns (no, I didn’t wear them), and arranged dried flowers on straw hats to give myself some ambiance while I planted and tended my puny suburban garden. Small steps, I kept telling myself.
At 17, I’d composed a letter to mail to “Any Amish Family” in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, but I never did mail my appeal to apprentice. The crème’ la (don’t know the word) was when my husband took me to Lancaster to visit his grandfather. It was the first time I’d seen farms, rolling pasture, and handmade quilts drying on the line. Incidently, the first Amish person I saw in Lancaster was in Burger King, but that’s just a side note.
Now, I mention this not because I still harbor romantic notions about a more simple life, but just to say where I came from (suburbia) and to confess that my initial pinings were misguided and ill-informed. But I was a teenager, and that explains everything.
Just as another side note (because this weblog is a journal for my kids), my husband took a picture of an Amish teenager on another trip to Lancaster. He was working in a corn field, and the sky was bright blue behind the boy. Greg stopped and asked him (knowing that it is against their religion to take pictures of themselves), and not only did he concede, but he asked Greg to mail him a copy. (Teenagers!) Greg did, and they corresponded regularly after that.
About a year later, we returned to Lancaster to visit his grandfather again, and we stopped by the family’s house (of the boy we took the picture of). After us awkwardly waiting while they privately conferred among themselves, they invited us for a tour of their farm and for a ride down the lane in their buggy. This was the first farm I’d seen up close anywhere other than the movies, and I remember that it stunk to my uncultured nose.
More later when I get a chance. And just for contrast, this is the rocket my husband will help launch tomorrow.
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Amy - I had an Amish fascination as a teenager, too. I think it really was a hunger to simplify. It seemed to get swallowed up as I got older and learned to juggle more and more, but now I’m really feeling it again. I can’t wait to read more about your family’s simplification:)
Comment by Shannon Miller (August 11, 2005 @ 2:00 pm )
Wow… sewed authentic dresses you didn’t even wear! You were industrious! All I did was read and play computer games!
Comment by My Boaz's Ruth (August 11, 2005 @ 5:10 pm )
(And write stories that were never ended.)
I wonder what it means about me that I kept reading about people that at least SHOULD have lots of kids.
King Henry VIII and his 6 wives
Cheaper by the Dozen
The 39 Steps
Sound of Music
all-of-a-kind family
etc
Comment by My Boaz's Ruth (August 11, 2005 @ 5:13 pm )
Amy, we lived in Millersville, Pa for a couple of years and the first Amish I saw were at the mall as we drove into Lancaster. That was weird.
Once we even had a van of Amish people stop and point at our boys. The boys were all dressed alike and we were at a park on the Susquehanna River. My dh was so proud.
But I think I might have told you all this before. We have a lot in common but I am older and more forgetful.
Comment by Cindy (August 11, 2005 @ 7:15 pm )
You’re not alone…I still collect books on the Amish, although it’s more for fun than information. We also visited Lancaster a few years back, and I enjoyed a couple of conversations I had with an Amish young woman (she was 16) and a mother.
I DO long for the “simpler” life…I just am not convinced that they are the ones that have it!
Comment by Karen (August 12, 2005 @ 3:34 am )
Amy,
I loved all things Amish as well. I still appreciate the workmanship and quality of their crafts, but I’m not as fascinated about their lifestyle. One day it occurred to me that it was a wonderful hideout, but what about going into all the world to make disciples. There is an almost innocense and safeness in Amish life. But I don’t hear much about those who convert on the basis of faith.
Maybe I’m too analytical, but I think it’s the same way some Christians get safe and cozy in their own space. Why mess up a good thing? Surely God can use me here. Why be uncomfortable?
Probably not the direction you were going. But there’s my input.
Comment by Paula (August 12, 2005 @ 3:44 am )
Have you ever seen that documentary on Amish teenagers and the tradition (can’t remember the dutch name for it but I think it translated as) wilding? I got it from Netflix. Very interesting. If you do get it watch it during quiet time away from little eyes.
~Teri in VA
who longs for goats and chickens
Comment by ~Teri in VA (August 12, 2005 @ 6:12 am )
“Have you ever seen that documentary on Amish teenagers and the tradition (can’t remember the dutch name for it but I think it translated as) wilding?”
It’s Rumspringa, I believe.
Comment by Mrs. Happy Housewife (August 12, 2005 @ 9:50 am )
Ive always had a fascination with the Amish too. It definitely comes from wanting a simpler life. Unfortunately I have learned that many Amish have puppy mills. Lancaster county alone has over 250 of them. Puppy mills are where dogs are kept in very small stacked cages, bred whenever they are in heat, and just produce pups. The dogs in the bottom cages live in the filth of the dogs above them. They then sell the pups for profit, and many are not suitable as pets, and are very sickly with behavior disorders. Its heartbreaking.
Comment by alana (August 12, 2005 @ 10:04 am )
Cindy, No, you haven’t mentioned it. But I do think you’re older…and wiser.
Terri, I haven’t seen any documentaries, but in the reading I’ve done, they do have the period (rumspringa, Thanks–Mrs. H) wherein they carry on with “wordly” activities before they make a commitment to the church. Smoking, drinking, and “bundling” are pretty common, but that is only book knowledge, not firsthand.
When we talked with an Amish teenager awhile back, she mentioned that they all join “gangs.” “Gangs!!???!,” I said, “Are you kidding?” She replied that they all choose a gang or group of teenagers to hang with after and during nighttime hymn singings… etc.
If only our own gangs were that dangerous.
Not saying that they don’t succumb and fight their sinful natures as much as we do, but for what it’s worth…
Comment by Amy (August 12, 2005 @ 10:15 am )
p.s. She also said that the little strands of hair at the temple that are braided or not differentiates them from each other. (I supposed that the more wild ones were the ones with braids under their caps with just the tiniest bit showing…) I suppose it’s just another form of “rebellion”, another way to push the rules in their community.
Comment by Amy (August 12, 2005 @ 10:18 am )
My best friends and I also wanted to apprentice with an Amish family. We both loved to cook and sew and had both lived on farms when we were earlier and I was conversational in German so we thought it would be perfect. I knew I could never go completely technology free though because like you I am married to a physics man.
There is definitely something apealing about their way of life. Just something simple and honest about working the earth and providing for your family and living in a commmunity. There doesn’t seem to be this desire to constantly get ahead to big and better things. I don’t know if it can really be acheived on that level elsewhere.
But as was pointed out, it is also very isolated. So, you may have things figured out but the only ones who know that are the other ones who have things figured out as well…. food for thought I suppose….
Comment by tiffany (August 12, 2005 @ 10:42 am )
Tiffany said:
This is the draw, if you will, that I think many people have of the Amish. It is the contentment that they have, that we want. I think that kind of contentment can be achieved anywhere: in the city, country, or suburbs. It is just a little harder in the city and suburbs. I read in one study that found the Amish as the happiest people group in America (also attributing to the lowest suicide rate, as well, percentage wise.)
Wherever God calls us, we are to embrace it fully and be content in the circumstance. (Easier said than done, I know.) But so long as God keeps opening doors in this direction, we’ll pursue it. Thanks for the food for thought, and I hope to get into this more later. Thanks for reading.
Comment by Amy (August 12, 2005 @ 11:03 am )
The idea of the Amish lifestyle is a romantic one… until you spend a lot of time around the present-day Amish community. Like your “Burger King Amish” experience, I see these folks in all kinds of states of looking un-Amish. It’s pretty obvious that they are regular sinners like the rest of us.
I did have to laugh the time I drove by one Amish house with the weekly washing out on the line. At the end of a row of hand-laundered t-shirts was a printed shirt, emblazoned with “Hooters”… Stuck out like a cat at a dog show.
Comment by rev-ed (August 12, 2005 @ 11:48 am )
OH! That is such a HOOT!!
Comment by Valerie BBG (August 12, 2005 @ 2:47 pm )
I’ve always been interested in simple living, which is why I have always been curious about the Amish. I would just do terribly under the legalistic eye of my neighbors though, as so much of their faith is “works righteousness”.
I don’t know about other places, but it was interesting to find that there are people in Michigan who are trying to get together a group of people to purchase large tracts of land for a “plain living” community.
Comment by Jenna (August 12, 2005 @ 10:18 pm )
Okay, I must pipe up with my most “unlikely” Amish story. We used to live in the South Bend, IN area. There were large settlements of Amish there…Elkhart, Nappanee, Middlebury, Shipshewana…so that was always fun. The funniest thing I ever saw was Amish ladies rifling through negligees at a garage sale….holding them up for size, etc. Hmmmm?
Comment by Holly (August 12, 2005 @ 10:49 pm )
I tried to get my hubby to go be Amish with me. He wouldn’t do it. We don’t have any Amish around here, but we did visit a Mennonite church nearby. But shortly after that I read RC Sproul’s “Chosen by God” and became a Calvinist. Wouldn’t work.
I do think there is A LOT we can learn from them. As to their being so isolated.. So many people are so struck with them they pay tons of money to ride around in buses just to get a LOOK. Maybe if we were a little different..
Comment by kerri (August 13, 2005 @ 12:21 am )
my initial pinings were misguided and ill-informed. But I was a teenager, and that explains everything.
*LOL* Can’t that explain a lot of things in our lives?
Btw, our neck of the swamp in Florida is home to a sizeable Amish and Mennonite population. Instead of buggies, however, they ride adult trikes.
Comment by TulipGirl (August 13, 2005 @ 11:57 pm )
TulipGirl,
In Florida, I don’t suppose they garden for a living, do they? It’s…just…not…an…option…here.
Comment by Amy (August 14, 2005 @ 9:28 pm )