No teeth? No problem!
Thursday, Sep 15, 2005
My three-year-old stood up in the bathtub when she was a toddler, slipped, and knocked her front teeth up into her gums. They eventually abscessed and had to be pulled. She has no memory of it, but I have to swallow hard whenever I talk about it.
She has the prettiest smile, though, and a gentle spirit to match. My second daughter has no idea that her missing teeth might be a handicap. She can eat apples, corn-on-the-cob, and anything at all.
It’s not that she doesn’t know about her missing teeth. Just this week, she reminded her baby sister, “Sweetie, you have to sit down in the bathtub or you’ll knock out your little toofies!”
Just today I was thinking of my own handicaps that prevent me from doing my job in the most excellent way: my back, my nausea, my [the list goes on]. And then I thought of my girl, who eats red apples but doesn’t care too much for the green ones, and I pressed on.
Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. ~II Cor. 12:9
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That is so precious.
Comment by Karen (September 16, 2005 @ 3:07 am )
what a sweetie. did it count for a tooth fairy visit once they did come out?
Comment by Monika (September 16, 2005 @ 7:06 am )
My son who is 22 months is missing 2 bottom teeth from a similar kind of accident. It doesn’t bother him one little bit either - amazing how handicaps don’t bother those who are unaware of them.
Comment by Jamie (September 16, 2005 @ 7:44 am )
One of my front teeth was knocked out as a little girl- they came in during second grade. I don’t remember being self-conscious about it, though I didn’t like that the yearbook had a candid shot of me eating pizza that said, “All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth.”
Your daughter’s beautiful. She has your eyes!
Comment by Amanda (September 16, 2005 @ 8:04 am )
What a gorgeous post, and well needed by ME who is 35 weeks pregnant and has many limitations right now. Your daughter is precious.
Comment by Andrea (September 16, 2005 @ 8:11 am )
That is a precious picture!
Could you have ever guessed how hard it would be to see our children go through pain?! When my oldest was three she got her finger tip amputated in the door jamb. I thought it was just pinched but when I looked…, well, let’s just say I’ll never forget it. Now I can see that in the bigger picture,it really was just a minor injury, but I am still so devestated by it, I physically cringe every time I hear a door slam. As I pondered the whole event, it amazed me so much that God sent His own Son to be put through a physical suffering on purpose! I realize how much He must love us to do that to His own child. I’m don’t believe that I would ever be willing to let my little ones go through even the fingertip thing for the sake of someone who hated me! But God’s love and purpose are much more glorious than anything I would ever plan. I’m so glad that we can rest and know that He plans everything, even the bumps, bruises, and more, for His glory and our good.
Soli Deo Gloria
P.S. To complete the story, they told us the reattached finger tip wasn’t taking and she would just have a shorter finger there. I was so sad that my little girls beautiful hands would be disfigured, but we continued to nurse it and pray. Then one day, the scab fell off and underneath there was this perfectly pink little fingertip! We praised God for His great blessings and concern even for such a relatively small thing.
Matthew 10:29-31
Comment by emily (September 16, 2005 @ 2:15 pm )
She is absolutely darling! I want some girls!
KSmilkmaid also posted about teeth today. You gals take like-mindedness to a whole new level.
Comment by Jo in Orlando (September 16, 2005 @ 2:17 pm )
My kids are the kind that other parents shield their children from: they tell everyone that Santa and The Tooth Fairy aren’t real!
Comment by Amy (September 16, 2005 @ 3:33 pm )
Aaahhh. How sweet.
Although we have never done Santa or the like, we just finished reading Peter Pan when my oldest lost his first tooth. We never make a big deal out of her, but the Tooth Fairy does come to our house. And everyone knows that the Tooth Fairy has long brown hair, twinkly blue eyes and looks a whole lot like Mom.
Comment by Janel (September 16, 2005 @ 5:21 pm )
She looks like her mommy!
Pretty girls.
Comment by Heather (September 16, 2005 @ 8:31 pm )
I forgot to say - my son also did this when he was about 11 months old. He was cruising around our wooden coffee table and fell. He knocked a front tooth back up into the gums. It came out fine again - just like the doctor said it would, but it nearly gave me a heart attack!
Comment by Heather (September 16, 2005 @ 8:33 pm )
She sounds so very sweet! Your thoughts echo what the Lord has been teaching me this week. I was having a bout with vertigo, ever since last Fri., and I was waiting to feel better to get back to school and our schedule and the Lord had a lesson from James 1 for my son and I to study togehter. It was about taking joy in our trials. I posted on my blog about it. I’m still trying to learn that I am supposed to do even more than just press on–I’m supposed to press on with joy in my heart. What a calling!
Then, I read today in the FOF magazine about a woman finding joy after a bad dad in a litter of puppies. The article pointed out that there is joy in everyday things around us–the wonderful things God has given us. Even the natural world holds so much joy just waiting for us to experience it. Is this where we can find true joy when we are going through trials?
Seems like the Lord is talking to us on a similar subject. And I like the idea, because I’m tired of waiting for life’s trials to end–and my excuses–so I can live it and have joy.
But I don’t envy your challenge. Pg was not an easy time for me to let go of my “handi-cap.” But you do have a great joy in such a sweet little girl!
Comment by Khyraen (September 17, 2005 @ 1:21 am )
What a doll. She is precious!!
We don’t do the tooth fairy or Santa either. I thought it would make the whole losing teeth thing a boring event. Not so! It has heightened the event to momentous type proportions.
Comment by KS Milkmaid (September 17, 2005 @ 11:56 pm )
Many years ago, I lost my two front teeth in a wagon accident while my mother was pulling me and my two older siblings in a wagon that overturned. She didn’t even realize I’d lost my teeth until that evening! I don’t recall that it ever bothered me too much, although the permanents didn’t grow in until I was eight years old–and we certainly had our share of “All I want for Christmas…”
Also, in one of my school pictures–2nd or 3rd grade, I suppose–I’m smiling really weird, with my lips trying to stay closed. I don’t remember it, but I’m guessing that I was to hide the fact of the missing teeth. And yes, I ate apples and corn-on-the-cob with gusto.
Two years ago, our now-12yo daughter broke her arm (fell out of a barn loft, but thankfully, it was at out doctor’s house–or rather, barn!). It was a very bad break; she came close to losing part of her forearm and her hand. Thanks be to God, our doctor, and the orthopedics department at the hospital we were ambulanced to, she is fully in tact. However, one of the growth plates at her wrist was damaged, so that her forearm quit growing. Thankfully, she didn’t have a whole lot of growing left to do there, but, as she says, three-quarter-length sleeves just don’t fall right on her, and make the difference between her arms very noticeable. What amazes me through all this is her attitude about it. Where it has very rarely bothered her at all (even at first), she really seems to be absolutely okay with it. She is, as we are, grateful that she has her entire arm and hand.
Comment by Mary Susan (September 18, 2005 @ 9:45 am )
She is a DOLL.
*grins and sighs*
Comment by molly (September 19, 2005 @ 1:41 am )
Thanks for sharing that, Amy.
Sniffle.
Where are my TISSUES?!
Comment by Kristen (September 19, 2005 @ 4:45 pm )
I know you’ve posted this 2 years ago. But atleast I know I am not the only kid who had injuries. =D
Comment by patrice (July 16, 2007 @ 10:53 am )