Follow-up on 12-07-05 post
Tuesday, Dec 13, 2005
I am the worst mother ever.
There are two cop cars on my street as I’m typing this, and I bet they’re looking for me. It all began this morning when I left the children unsupervised while I brushed my teeth. Sticky note to self: You are a mother now; you are not allowed to spend copious amounts of time on personal hygiene! Get over it, lady.
So the Child-Who-Will-Remain-Unnamed– but happens to be the oldest and most responsible of the bunch– took it upon himself to dole out the vitamins (which are on a very high shelf in the kitchen) this morning without asking. He opened the child-proof lid and gave each Scott kid one serving, which amounts to two vitamins each. Normally this wouldn’t be a problem, as the kids know the rules and wouldn’t dream of taking more than allotted.
But the 18-month-old doesn’t know Scott Rule #8349847, which states clearly: Do not eat entire bottles of vitamins. Yes, you know what happened. Child-Who-Will-Remain-Unnamed neglected to put away the bottle, leaving it open on the table. Baby Energizer –who is really feeling the energy now—consumed an estimated 40 vitamins. But looking on the bright side, it was only 20 servings.
To confirm my suspicions, we first needed to track down the vitamin bottle. We turned the house upside down searching for the missing vitamin bottle, as I placed a frantic call to my husband to google “vitamin poisoning” on the internet. I barked out commands to the older three kids like a drill sergeant, “Find the vitamin bottle NOW!” while simultaneously coaxing the baby with sweet words, “Tell Mama where the vitamins are…show Mommy…you can do it.”
She just smiled at me.
I finally found the vitamin bottle when my husband called to tell me that it was the iron in vitamins that are toxic. I read and reread the bottle over and over. There’s no iron in my children’s multivitamin! What kind of mother gives her kids vitamins without iron in them? Right—only bad mothers. But apparently, being a bad mother was working out for me today.
Another call to the National Poison Center (1-800-222-1222) confirmed that iron is the thing to worry about and that there was no need to get her stomach pumped. “But,” I challenged, “Can’t a person overdose on vitamins A, D, E, or K?” The reply was that it had to be ingested repeatedly over a long period of use. OK, good. This is only my first time of mothering neglect accidental overdose. As the cop cars drive by now slowly in front of my house, I regret giving the National Poison Control Center my real name.
So, no more gummy vitamins. It’s back to the gross ones. As far as this happening again, a serious talk to all the children (with special emphasis to Nameless-Kid) confirmed that they understood the seriousness of the offense.
And as for me, no more teeth brushing. I think it’ll aid my safety in jail.
Postscript: The vitamin bottle was found in the trashcan. The baby threw it away after she ate them. Maybe I’m not doing such a bad job after all.
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Amy - My poor sil and her hubby had to take their toddler to the er and call poison control so many times that she was convinced they were going to take her kids away. When her son got the potty seat stuck on his head, she made her hubby drive to an er in a different town where they didn’t know them:) And this is a woman who easily could’ve won a most over-protective mother award!
How is Baby Energiser, by the way? Gummi’s would’ve tempted me too:)
Comment by Shannon Miller (December 13, 2005 @ 2:46 pm )
At least you give your kids vitamins
Comment by emily (December 13, 2005 @ 2:51 pm )
Oh, Amy! I know the feeling. Sometimes I go a whole week feeling like a bad mommy every day!! Hang in there.
Comment by Julie (December 13, 2005 @ 3:18 pm )
Oh wow! Guess baby’s urine will be rather bright for a while. Atleast he will be able to fight off the winter illness all season with today’s dose. Sounds like we had a similar day! While I was showering, my 2 year old colored the couches and then comes to tell me “Oh, I made a big mess Mommy” — “Oh no,” I thought. It is always worse when the come cofess it first. I looked over the balcony at my green couch marked all over in big circles — various colors, hard pressing. Can’t even take a shower some days….. =) Sure hope the police weren’t tipped to come check on you. I have heard not to call Poison Control more than twice a year or they give note to family services. I am not sure if that is true though. We have yet to have a need to call them. Hope things go well. Might want to get some of those new disposable finger tooth scrubbers. =)
Comment by Stephanie (December 13, 2005 @ 3:36 pm )
She threw the jar into the trash! Awesome! You are a terrific Mama! I am still having issues with getting my 20 year old to put the mayonnaise back into the fridge!
I am sorry for the day you had! I still make my children hide when there is an unexpected knock at the door during the day. Nothing like a little paranoia! ((HUGS))
Comment by Margaret in VA (December 13, 2005 @ 4:20 pm )
Is there a conspiracy going on with our children to get us to call Poison Control? I just wrote about my fiasco yesterday that included a call there. I sure hope there is no such thing as getting a note sent to family services after two calls a year! Maybe I should make cookies to keep in the freezer for when they come…
Comment by Heidi (December 13, 2005 @ 4:44 pm )
Glad to hear everyone is ok. I know that can be a scary time…and sort of frustrating that you cant even have a few minutes of “me” time during the day..it is amazing sometimes that we can even get dressed and match at the same time
Comment by Christy (December 13, 2005 @ 5:01 pm )
Don’t feel so bad Amy. My bad mom moment, was when I just let her “hold” a bottle of children’s cough syrup until she felt better. I ended up taking a shower and forgetting I had put her to bed with it still in her hand. I got out of the shower, only to hear her crying. When I went into her room, purple cough syrup covered her, her sheets, and part of the tan carpet. I freaked out! I pulled her into the bathroom and tried gagging her only to realize all that did was have her accidentally bite me instead. I called poison control in between trying to get a hold of my husband and now getting creative with a tooth brush! Needless to say the whole thing was a mess. Poison control basically said she would have had to consume about 3/4 of the bottle. Not possible. We were ok. You would think that after that whole fiasco she would never want to have medicine again, think again! Good thing God’s grae covers all my shortcomings.
Comment by Carrie (December 13, 2005 @ 5:14 pm )
Oh Amy! I so sympathize! You didn’t need to put that number there as I know it by heart now. At least you wee one ate something which is suppose to be digested- thus far this year we’ve had bug spray, diaper ointment, and liquid Vics Vapor digested. Good times.
I have to wonder sometimes if people at the poison control center take the job just for the entertainment value.
Comment by tiffany (December 13, 2005 @ 7:40 pm )
Oh what a fun blog! Thanks for making me take time to laugh and enjoy the moment.Read most all your posts and enjoyed them all. Glad baby is okay after taking the vitamins!
Comment by peggy (December 13, 2005 @ 7:51 pm )
Thanks for posting this story, Amy. It helps to know we’re all in the same boat together.
My last call to poison control was a couple of months ago when my 9 mo. old ate a dead cockroach (which he found in his playpen of all places!!). After calling Terminix (LOL), I called my best friend to report I was the worst mother ever. She laughingly agreed.
Comment by Nancy B (December 13, 2005 @ 8:52 pm )
We know of a 4 yo boy that consumed a months worth of birth control pills. The doctor told his mother she didn’t have to worry about him getting pregnant
The good thing with this being vitamins is that the blood won’t absorb much more vitamins in one digestion than the body can use.
Comment by Ron (December 13, 2005 @ 9:27 pm )
You crack me up. I especially like the part about taking the time to brush your teeth meaning you were taking copious amounts of time for personal hygiene. It sure feels like that sometimes. You sound like an awesome mom.
Comment by kathryn, the daring one (December 13, 2005 @ 10:23 pm )
Aw Amy, I’m sorry for the freak out day!!!! I’m so glad there wasn’t iron in them…that WOULD have been bad!
Hey. My little guy throws EVERYTHING in the trash…his shoes, his daddy’s tape measure, my ziploc containers….clean diapers…you name it. Maybe they WILL be neatniks. (And health nuts, too.)
Comment by Holly (December 13, 2005 @ 10:51 pm )
You know those useless little packs of “silica” that come in boxes of shoes, lamps etc. Well, my toddler ate one and I FREAKED out and called PC, they were great and informed me that it is sand. Not to worry. Boy, did I feel stupid. I really appreciated PC the night my son got stung by a scorpion and he says “my throat feels tight and my lips are numb”.
Take care, Amy and give Energizer lots of water
Comment by Janet (December 13, 2005 @ 11:10 pm )
What a day. Sorry.
I think maybe they are making some things taste far too good
these days. My kids like the Motrin so much it’s scarey!
Comment by kerri (December 13, 2005 @ 11:12 pm )
My child, now three, also attempted to eat a bag of silica gel while I took the luxury of going to the bathroom. She was fifteen months old at the time and managed to climb up the kitchen chair, onto the table, and dig into my shopping bag which contained a new pair of shoes and the silica bag. All of this was accomplished within the first 60 seconds. Luckilly, she did not like the taste and proceeded to spit out the colorless beads in her mouth and spill the remainder all over the kitchen floor. It was months before all those beads were finally captured and disposed of. After that I took her with me to the bathroom until she developed some common sense.
Comment by Kim in WI (December 14, 2005 @ 12:15 am )
My sixteen month old throws EVERYTHING in the trash can. I have to check a couple of times a day. She finishes her bottle, in the trash can. Gets finished with toys? In the trash can.
Comment by Leslie (December 14, 2005 @ 6:41 am )
I am so glad everything turned out okay. Iron is a BIGBAD thing to OD. Tis better to be iron-deficient than, um, dead.
If it isn’t nailed down, my toddler throws it in the trash. He’s tidy.
We’ve called poison control because one of our kids drank baby lotion. Not an issue—it would grease his innards and that was about it. His breath smelled heavenly, though. I called poison control on *myself* once.
Comment by mopsy (December 14, 2005 @ 11:25 am )
Do you think there has ever been a mother (at least in modern times) who has NOT called Poison Control? My eldest got a hold of liquid potpourri and as I walked aroun the corner to find her, she was on the floor with green all around her mouth, down her front and holding the bottle. Talk about panic! They said to watch her closley and if anything unusal happens (blue/purple lips, irregular breathing, etc) take her in imediatly. I think it was most on her, not in her.
But my worst “mommy momment” was when she was still in the crib and she was waking up over and over through out the night. I was thinking she was getting in the habit of waking up, making noise and then I would go to her. So she made noises one night and I ignored her. Soon she fell back asleep, and I thought “hey, it worked!”. In the morning, when I went to get her, there was vomit all over! She had thrown up and called for me, yet I ignored her! And so she slept in it the rest of the night.
I never felt so low and horrible! It’s 4 years later and it still haunts me. Yikes! 
Comment by Jennifer D (December 14, 2005 @ 12:46 pm )
I know you hate to think that in 10 years you will be just like me but I gave the poison control my real name and regretted it after my child ate vitamins without iron.
Agrarian Mother Motto: If you don’t buy vitamins with iron you will never have anything to regret.
Comment by Cindy (December 14, 2005 @ 1:04 pm )
Jennifer D, I have done something similar, only worse…..we were traveling and the wee one needed a nap and just wouldn’t fall asleep and so we put her in ther play pen in a neighboring room and were just going to let her cry it out. And cry she did. For over an hour. Come to find out after she got up, she had managed to reach out suitcase and find her dad’s razor and cut herself. She was crying because she was hurt and I let her there to bleed. I still feel terrible. Probably always will, as my mom still feels bad about the time I got ahold of a picture frame while napping and cut myself and she was leaving me to cry it out too. Maybe it is genetic.
I think we all just have these things happens. You know, it could be due to the nature of the kids, not the Mommy….just a thought.
Comment by tiffany (December 14, 2005 @ 2:29 pm )
I read this post (and comments) at least twice to my husband, and we just laughed so hard! I’ll just say is I’m soooo glad Crayola markers aren’t toxic!!!I entitled my blog “goodlikeamedicine.” Maybe I should change it to “good like poision control!” Could I win an award next year, then? Maybe we will have the “2006 Blogs of Bad Mommys” Awards! haha
I’m sure you’re a fantastic mom. I love reading your posts - this is just another reminder that ultimately we aren’t the One in control!!!!
Comment by Kristi (December 14, 2005 @ 2:47 pm )
“Guess baby’s urine will be rather bright for a while.”
Yep, and expensive.
Comment by Shaun (December 14, 2005 @ 3:00 pm )
Bless your heart!!! I know how you feel though. I went to the bathroom a month or so back to come only to find my 23 month old chewing on a tube of super glue my DH left out! He had a nice dab of dried super glue on his chin, but luckly he mouth didn’t get glued shut. Ran him to the hospital to be told, “Oh it’s fine…super glue in nontoxic. Just take him home, the dried super glue will just wear off.” It’s truly amazing how quickly they can do these things! Oh, and my DH had a little bit of hair left after I finished tearing into him about leaving the super glue out in the first place
Comment by Susan (December 14, 2005 @ 3:32 pm )
We’ve done the Poison Control thing for:
An entire tube of toothpaste - could’ve been bad but I made him vomit while flushing his mouth
A mushroom from the yard: Did you know ipecac makes them sleep really well?
A roll of Tums
Bacitracin
Resolve Carpet Cleaner
I’m so glad the baby is okay!
Comment by blestwithsons (December 14, 2005 @ 5:45 pm )
At least you didn’t leave anyone alone with an iron…..
boy#3 has a little scar on one finger. I never knew irons heated up SO quickly!
Comment by Lyn (December 14, 2005 @ 7:43 pm )
I think we’ve called Poison Control for all 5 of ours (but maybe only once each).
We had one that had eaten berries from a plant which we did not recognize. Poison Control told us to go to a greenhouse to have them identify the plant, so we called until we found one open (on a Sunday afternoon), told them the situation and how long it would take us to get there, and then sped off. We arrived about 25 minutes later, and they had closed and everyone left. Apparently the berries weren’t too deadly. The kid is still alive.
JFC
Comment by JFC (December 14, 2005 @ 8:31 pm )
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaahahahaha…
Glad everything ended up being okay. I’ve had one of those scary moments too…
Comment by molly (December 14, 2005 @ 9:46 pm )
Thank you, thank you all, I laughed, I cried and I totally feel vindicated knowing these things happen to the best of us.
Comment by Amie (December 14, 2005 @ 11:22 pm )
My kids love the gummy-vites. Maybe too much. Thanks for the warning to keep my eyes on them more closely!
Our record breaking poison control call (and we’ve had several) was when our son (who’s 9 now, but he was 1 at the time) consumed my mother-in-law’s estrogen tablets. Talk about mother-worry. I was sure he was ruined for life. They were very reassuring at PC (and I’m sure they got a good laugh over it).
You’re not a terrible mother (I’m sure you realize that by now!)…just normal. It’s okay to brush your teeth. I’m sure taht un-named son has learned a great lesson from this. I know that my kids that gathered around the computer to listen to your story did!

Comment by Karen (December 14, 2005 @ 11:43 pm )
I guess this answers my question about when I can leave them unattended while I take a shower - maybe college age?
My 2yo ate one of my prenatal vitamins (with iron, so I freaked out!), and poison control said just one wouldn’t hurt her. She had green poop, and that was the end of it.
Comment by Heidi (December 15, 2005 @ 1:49 am )
Oh my. I am laughing so hard reading these!!!
I had two poisen control moments so far:
one year old drank a citronella candle. (Filled with kerosene and citronella.) Boy did that diaper stink the next day! whooooeeeeew! (They said it would be ok as long as she didn’t breath it in.
another tot at age two ate the dishwasher flakes and it made her tummy pretty sick. so I called, and she was fine too.
Children are amazing.
Comment by Sarah Joy (December 15, 2005 @ 3:45 am )
Have to add this standard comment around my house:
Child #1: Oh No! He’s eating (crayons, markers, whatever!)
Child #2: (in monotone voice..reading box or bottle.) “Oh, that’s okay. It’s non-toxic.”
As if !!!!!! it is okay to ingest if it is non toxic! They don’t notice that these things are NOT on the weekly menu?
Comment by Holly (December 15, 2005 @ 9:34 am )
I had a child lick paint off of a paint stick that we had thrown in the trash. She thought that it was cake batter. Had to call PC.
Another child ate a whole bottle of Tub Tints. I called the 800 number on the container. “If you have questions about Lucky Ducks push #1, If your child just ate a Tub Tint push #2.” It turns out that Tub Tints are nontoxic and look a LOT like chewable vitamins!
We’ve also had a child eat Hershey Kisses with the tin foil still on them. We didn’t realize it till we found tin foil in the diapers. Yuck!
Comment by Tiffany (December 15, 2005 @ 10:26 am )
Hey! I voted for you for best mom blog.
Anyway, I have called Poison Control multiple times! Let’s see…there was the time Dylan ate wood putty (because it looked like cheerios), then the time Madi ate several adult Benadryl tablets (NOT my best moment…thankfully they taste like crud and she spit them out, but I was sure the police were coming for me)…the time Ethan drank bleach water (mop bucket…he decided to dip his cup in it while I left it sitting in the middle of the kitchen and ran to the potty…apparently I should have just gone on the floor, after all I WAS mopping I could have just cleaned it up)…oh and how about the magnet on my MIL’s fridge that had dried lacquered fruit on it…yep, that got eaten…
I know there are others, and you know what’s really sad…I am SUCH a vigilant parent! But it always happens to my kids.
Comment by Sheri (December 15, 2005 @ 11:44 am )
Thanks for the laughs everyone - I am wiping away the tears!! No PC calls here - my kids eat only regular stuff - crayons, chalk, and mud - all which look so lovely in the diaper (especially the mud!)
Comment by Kelly (December 16, 2005 @ 12:11 am )
I was almost going to boast and say that with *twice* as many children I’ve never had to call poison control, but a small incident from the deep, dark recesses of my brain surfaced to keep me humble (but not as humble as you, Amy ;-)).
When I was pregnant with Ben, Pieter found an empty pizza box from the night before that had a spilled packet of red pepper flakes in it. His chubby little fingers rummaged around in the box for any leftover goodies, then he stuck a peppery finger in his eye. Ouch! He screamed and screamed, and when we figured out why his eyes were hurting we thought he was going to go blind. We called poison control who told us to run cold water over his eye for 15 minutes. A squirming, screaming toddler upside down over the sink…I’m surprised it didn’t put me into labor.
By the time we had Gracie (number 4) we were much calmer parents. In fact, we were so soporific that when someone put chicken bones in the trash compactor and flies laid eggs that hatched, we only said, “Ick” and moved her away when we caught her munching on the little maggots that she found on the floor.
Ick.
Comment by Carmon (December 16, 2005 @ 11:36 am )
Oh, my goodness! I myself am a pretty laid back mom. I don’t run after my children if they’re screaming (unless it’s THE scream), I don’t ice hardly anything, my children often hear “if you’re not bleeding or dieing, you’re fine. Go play.” But even I would freak out with the maggot thing, Carmon! After my eyes were ajusted to what I was actually seeing, and after I’d be done screaming “Ew, ew, ew!”, I’d probably throw up for the both of us!
(not that this has anything to do with being a good or “bad” mother. We have no control over where flies lay their eggs. And that’s not to say that those mothers who DO ice hurts and run when their child screams are “bad” either. My sister-in-law is like that and she is a very good mother. It’s just the “mothering style” that differs, not the love and caring.)
Jennifer
Comment by Jennifer D (December 17, 2005 @ 9:52 am )
I am so glad that everything is ok. I had to call PC once, because when my daughter was a crawling baby, she had this obsession with sucking on washcloths. I mopped the floor (with a wash cloth) and had to answer the phone. I was gone about a minute, came back to find her sucking on the lysol-water washcloth!! I immiediately call PC and the guy laughed and me and told me that was a first for him. Also, that she should be fine, as she proably just “tasted” it and didn’t really “eat” it. She was fine, by the way.
I hope your week will go better!
Comment by Anonymous (December 17, 2005 @ 2:50 pm )
My little Morgan used to call vitamins BITE-A-DOMEs.
Freaky, eh? Glad that Baby-Energizer is ok, and don’t feel bad. We’ve had a few cases of “mothering neglect”-itis as well. Turns out we’re just a normal family - learning to raise kids as we go! Now, if you buy another bottle and leave it out on the table, then I would wonder! 
Comment by Heather (December 20, 2005 @ 4:23 pm )
Well, I, too have a PC moment to share. Sure makes me feel better to see all these other moms who are as irresponsible, er…uh, busy as I am! In our old apartment, we had porcelain tubs, which never seemed to get clean enough. So, one morning, I put my two little ones in their room with the gate up, and filled the bathtub-in the bathroom across from their room-with bleach water while I went to take a shower. When I got out, I was milling around and in comes my then 4 year old dripping wet. To make a long story short, she saw that mommy had filled the tub with “bathwater” for her,climbed over the gate, and jumped on in! PC said bleach water won’t hurt her, even if she ingested some, seeing that our tap water has bleach in it. Well, at least she was clean-and bacteria free!
Comment by kari (January 1, 2006 @ 12:09 pm )
Yikes! Your heart drops thru the floor dosen’t it when something like that happens! Amazing that we can feel sooo guilty for things like a potty break or brushing our teeth! My daughter when a toddler got a hold of a bottle of cough medicine. I was right there having just given her the right dosage and just turned to set something down. We weren’t sure how much she swallowed but we thought maybe 1/3 of a bottle? In great panic and feeling like the world’s worst parent we phoned the doctor who with his typical dry humor said, “Well I guess she won’t cough for you for a while.” I didn’t know whether to laugh or be offended. Chose the laugh. We’ve all been there, Amy.
I love your site! You’ve challenged me greatly.
Comment by Susanne (February 13, 2006 @ 1:16 pm )
The Poison Control I do not think keeps track of the times you call. If they did, I would be in big trouble lol. I have a son who is 20, and three girls, the youngest being two. I worry about everything, and call them often if I have a question. They are always ALWAYS very nice and caring. Do NOT ever be afraid to call them…it really could mean the difference between good and bad. Good luck all!!!!
Comment by Kitzy (February 15, 2006 @ 6:47 pm )
It’s wonderful to here all these stories about what kids will do or eat which sounds like just about anything. Gotta try it. Well here’s mine, I was outside doing yard work with my 2yr old with me. turned my back for a moment next thing I know my son has juice all over his face looked like smooshed blue berries. It was fall though and we don’t have blue berries in our yard. I have a book called North American Wildlife best thing I ever bought at that moment has animals, plants, and mushrooms in it. Found it it was called Pokeweeds used to make ink in pioneer days. Darn book says “but, some children have died from eating the berries”. Obviously I freeked, Called PC they said He probably tried it and spit it out told me I should wipe his mouth out witha wash cloth (gotta remember that for the new boy)any ways he’s 5 and fine….
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Amy,
My 2 1/2 year old dosed herself on robitussin. The bad part was, I did not even notice it until she woke up at 10 pm. She had a horrible cough so I went to give her a dose of cough syrup. My heart sank as I picked up the empty bottle. I called our vital line, a service of the local hospital. The nurse said ” you do not know WHEN you child drank the medicine ?!!!” As if I weren’t feeling bad enough. Then she tryed to play detective and figure out how a two year old could have done this. I put her where she belonged and told her it was not her job to judge me, she needed to help me. It really is a shame that every bad move we make be turned on us. I would never dream of poisoning my child, so I felt your pain about giving your name to the poison control center. We are great moms who are human and learn dearly from our mistakes.
Comment by Mel (March 31, 2007 @ 3:16 pm )
Well Amy, 20 servings isn’t so bad. When I was about five my cousin (who was the same age) and I got into some daily vitamins WITH iron. Our older brothers (about age 10) saw us eating them and asked us if we were supposed to have them. We told them we were so they let us continue. We quit eating when we had each downed a months worth. Our moms started making us vomit when someone discovered what we had been doing. When my aunt called poison control they told her that that much iron could have easily killed us. I guess God had other plans for us. We are both 21 now and just fine.
A couple of years ago at a Christmas gift exchange I gave that cousin a bottle of Flinstone vitamins (that is the kind we ate) so it is still a family story that gets told often.
Comment by Rhonda (April 1, 2007 @ 10:22 pm )