Small talk
Friday, Jul 14, 2006
Since I just heard that World War III began, I went out this evening to coddle an overpriced frappachino from my local coffee shop before gas prices make that improbable in the future. I had an hour to myself, and this is how I spent it.
The reason I like this local coffee shop is for all the things it’s not. There are no lines, no long menu choices, and no unfamiliar faces. The kid who served me tonight was the same kid who was there a few weeks ago. I like that. (I also like how I can call him a “kid” now even though he’s probably about 20.) It’s the sort of place you’d find in the imaginary town that I imagine too much about. The kind with a Main Street. Except for the free Wi-fi, this local shop could almost find itself staged in an Anne of Green Gables narration.
The conversation there is good, even though I’m not one for excessive small talk. The habit of “cutting to the chase” of a matter might be due to the fact that my (uninterrupted) time is so limited, but I’m learning that one earns the right to ask questions that are more difficult precisely because one has entertained the mundane.
But small talk just for the sake of itself is good too. It’s one of the simple pleasures in life. Overpriced coffee is another one.
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Love places like that! I have been thinking of doing something like this too, knowing I won’t be driving as much with the rising gas prices.
Comment by Wendy (July 15, 2006 @ 9:10 am )
WWIII? Guess I better check the news. LOL
Comment by mrs.s. (July 15, 2006 @ 9:21 am )
I’m jealous! If I want an overpriced coffee I have to go to Barnes and Noble which requires tying a bandana around the eyes of whichever wee ones happen to be with me ;). Why do they put the books with the most shocking covers right where EVERYONE has to walk by them? I suppose I should appreciate (?!) that it keeps me out more often than not :).
Comment by Shelby (July 15, 2006 @ 9:50 am )
I never go out for overpriced coffee. I don’t like coffee, there just aren’t any venues where I live for overpriced tea.
But we’ve got a little shop down the road that sells overpriced Ben&Jerry’s
Comment by Lady Lenore (July 15, 2006 @ 11:22 am )
Yep…I have been a member of The Andy Griffith show fan club on-line for just this reason…I long to live in Mayberry!
And don’t you love those little hours to ourselves?
As for the news…I’ve been hearing of things but my husband is the news watcher in the family simply because I get too stressed too easily sometimes. He tells me anything I *need* to know!
Here’s to the Mayberry places of the world…
Blessings,
~Tammy
Comment by Tammy (July 15, 2006 @ 12:49 pm )
I hear ya, sister. Even here in my city, I find that the local coffee-shop-chain locations are like this–the staff tends to be fairly stable, and I am strangely comforted by the sight of young people intently sipping coffee and playing backgammon. I’m not much of a coffee-drinker myself, but they have tea, too, plus coffees that are really more like deserts–you know, mocha-caramel-cappuccino things with whipped cream on them and enough calories to nourish a small developing nation. Ah, that occasional indulgence . . . .
Comment by Mrs. P. (July 15, 2006 @ 5:01 pm )
Oh goodness. *I* live in Mayberry. Truly! We even have a little noon whistle that blows (right while my husband is preaching every Sunday) and coming right up at the end of July is Bologna Festival. Yes! It’s true. We celebrate the fact that our town makes ring bologna, and have an entire weekend festival.
It is a great place to live. Everything you imagine about it is true…both the good, and the bad.
Comment by Holly (July 15, 2006 @ 9:41 pm )
Just visiting tonight…I love Anne of Green Gables …and am enjoying lots of iced hazelnut coffee here at home. Sooo much cheaper ..but I do love Barnes & Noble…just to browse.
Comment by Maggie Ann (July 15, 2006 @ 11:01 pm )
Exactly the mini-vacation I used to take when my kids were small. It was the only time I could find a few minutes to think, read, write… Now I get a chuckle when I talk to my daughter and she can’t finish a sentence due to a house full of little (wonderful) children.
Yes, when I heard that great evangelical prophet, Bill O’Reilly (sp?) say we had entered WWIII, it made me stop and think.
Comment by Brenda (July 16, 2006 @ 11:23 am )
Nothing like coffee and a quiet place to think while contemplating the end of the world… ;o)
Brad
Comment by Broken Messenger (July 16, 2006 @ 11:02 pm )
If you moved into the center of the city then you could walk to a dozen coffee shops–none of which would be a starbucks! But they do close at around 6:00 in the evening because after that everyone gathers at pubs.
Living a few minutes from my husbands work has been a treat, but I have to admit I look forward to suburban living. I think I’m the only mother of two young children living in what is called the central business district.
The good thing about it is that in the Aussie suburbs, people do walk to the butcher and the baker. Their kids talk about having morning tea. And people convene on corners to take buses into the city. It sounds very appealing to me right now.
Comment by Leslie (July 17, 2006 @ 6:47 am )
Overpriced coffee and small talk…I know the former but only vaguely remember the latter. Oh wait. I believe I participated in some small talk with the chickens the other day. I’ll have to bring some overpriced coffee out there with me next time and see if it enhances the conversation.
We live more or less in the country. Your town sounds nice. Like the town I grew up in. I love atmosphere. There’s a little town not to far from us that I love to go to a few times a year just for the atmosphere. I always leave with a feeling of well-being.
Comment by OreoSouza (July 17, 2006 @ 11:40 am )
Our family went for a hike up along a waterfall in a gorge last weekend, and I thought about “World War III” as I drank in the scenery, and I wondered how it could be so peaceful and beautiful where I was and so horrible in the middle east. I wished everyone in the world could just stop and spend some time alone in front of a waterfall with the spray on their faces and the ferns growing out of the rock at their elbows. I was glad to have a chance to contemplate the goodness and beauty of God. Our faith will need fortifying if things go the way it looks like they might–gas prices will be the least of our worries. But God is in control.
Comment by ruth (July 17, 2006 @ 3:31 pm )
Lol, I just had to giggle. You think you’ve got it bad! Here in the UK we get our diesel cheap because my hubby works at a haulage firm. Anyway I’ve just worked out (rates of dollars to £ and litres to gallons) that we pay $6.30 per gallon of diesel (diesel is around the same as petrol (gas) prices). 80% of that is tax. Do you think that the USA people would put up with that? Lol.
Count your blessings America :o)
Comment by Mrs Blythe (July 18, 2006 @ 7:48 am )
I too am a HUGE - Anne of Green Gables fan (not the third movie though - ick). I’m not a huge coffee drinker - though I love the aroma of it all!
Blessings!
Comment by Renee (July 18, 2006 @ 11:35 am )
The Envelope Please
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