Pink flamingos, fangs, and a ladder
Monday, Sep 25, 2006
Several years ago, we had this neighbor. I don’t remember anything about him—not even his name—only that he had the two biggest dogs on the planet. He was fixing up his house to sell, and so he spent a lot of time on the front yard landscaping.
These two dogs went everywhere with my neighbor. When he jumped into his pickup, they followed. When he took out the trash, those dogs followed. When he worked in his yard, they sat guard on the lawn—without a leash.
At the time, I had a newborn and a toddler, and I’d wave politely from a distance. Usually I’m friendlier than that, but I didn’t want to take any chances. These dogs were big—about the size of horses, those big Amish work horses. These dogs were vicious, too. I didn’t have proof of this; I just knew because of the size of their fangs. What if I got too close with my babies and one of them sneezed? We’d get blown across the street (and you didn’t want to go in those people’s yard; trust me).
One day I needed to talk about a matter with my neighbor. I called to him. He waved and told me to come on over. I waved back and casually invited him over to my turf. However, he won because he was up on a ladder. (I took a mental note to buy a ladder.)
As usual, those two big dogs were parked on the lawn. They stared me down. I scooped up my babies, balancing one on each hip—which incidentally was the perfect height for them to bend down and take a bite. I tiptoed. I held my breath. I smiled to cover up the fact that I was about to have a nervous breakdown.
“Oh, they won’t bother you,” my neighbor reassured me. I wanted to scream, What?! Well, then why HAVE them?! Why not get a few pink flamingos for the lawn or something?! Instead, I just discussed whatever it is I was there for and tried to control the shaking in my voice.
How did this guy ever have any friends?
I was thinking about my neighbor and his breathing, trotting security system as I read a dog-training manual this weekend. Most of you know my reluctance about getting a dog, er, my husband’s dog. But it’s time to make lemonade, folks. Did you know you could train a dog to pick up toys? Did you know you could train a dog to open doors, turn off lights, and get the mail? While I’m at it, I plan to train him how to get a job, too. Right after I teach him to show his fangs to the neighbors.

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Yes, but can you train him to stand on stilts and look pink?
Comment by Jeana (September 25, 2006 @ 9:41 am )
Oh, Amy, this is exactly how I have felt about big dogs all my life! Then we moved waaaay out in the country, and my husband felt we needed dogs for various reasons. A neighbor begged us to take a rehabbed German shepherd, and then one of my daughters found another shepherd abandoned (we get a lot of those out here).
They are pussycats. They intimidate visitors and dh’s clients, but they are so sweet and desperately love attention. Even with the smallest grandchildren, they have been gentle and protective. I guess I have been rehabbed, too. Now yappy little dogs, let’s not even go there . . .
Comment by Bonnie in FL (September 25, 2006 @ 10:05 am )
oh amy,
you are so in for it!! We have two dogs that are more trouble than all seven of my children. but you get attached and love them, what’s to do? you’re stuck! have fun!!
Comment by mrs. ward (September 25, 2006 @ 10:22 am )
Hey, another bonus to having a dog when you have a bigger family: they clean up the rice under the dining room table! Everytime we bring home chicken teriyaki with rice with our three (soon to be four) little ones, we talk about getting a dog.
Comment by Sara (September 25, 2006 @ 11:00 am )
I don’t like dogs….but that dog is cute! SHHHHH don’t tell my kids!!!!
Our dog is great for security - he barks like crazy at anything that moves….people, other dogs, leaves, sticks etc
He brings us things he finds sometimes too, somehow without mortally wounding them….frogs, bats, just a few minutes ago he brought us a VERY interesting looking caterpillar…
Comment by Deanna (September 25, 2006 @ 11:32 am )
Sara is right, since we’ve become a dogless family I’ve had to sweep in the dining room a whole lot more. On the other hand, I don’t have to unclog the vacuum hose every other day from the dog hair, I guess it evens itself out ;).
Comment by Shelby (September 25, 2006 @ 11:36 am )
Amy, Amy, Amy………………
Big dogs are great. We have an English Mastiff named Goliath and he is the biggest baby you will ever meet! Yes, he looks intimidating, but if a burglar came into our home he would simply roll over and want his belly rubbed : )
Comment by Kelli (September 25, 2006 @ 12:03 pm )
You are too funny.
I so enjoy reading your posts!
And your husband’s dog Knox is pretty endearing, I must say. As far as dogs go.
~Stacy
Comment by reforming mama (September 25, 2006 @ 12:47 pm )
A friend told me about your site and I picked a good post to start with. Our three daughters each have a large dog, one is still a pup. They are not huge - the malinois/shepherd is 75 pounds and the male Aussie is 50, while the female Aussie pup should reach around 40. The girls obedience train them for 4-H and UKC obedience. It is amazing what they can learn and do. We never had dogs or particularly liked them when we moved back to be closer to family.
My brother, the 4-H dog advisor, offered my daughter who was 12 at the time a 15 month old dog he had as a 4-H project (Yes, without asking my husband and I first
). Her eyes got as round as saucers and a grin spread over her face a mile wide. It has been a wonderful experience for her. At 17, she now has her obedience title at the highest obedience level and is now working on points to gain additional titles. The best part though is the great bond and friendship she has with her dog.
With proper training, dogs can be wonderful beasts to have around!! Blessings
Comment by GardenOfGrace (September 25, 2006 @ 1:41 pm )
Amy - You’ll be balancing this baby on your hip in no time!!!
Go for a bonding period before a training period - it’s what works best with the kids!!!!!
Comment by Elaine (September 25, 2006 @ 4:06 pm )
When returning from a walk, I advise our dog “Wipe your Feet”, and she does it every time. First the front, and then the back. It’s very cute, but took some training. It’s by far the most impressive thing she does, although the high fivves she gives my husband during Monday night football are impressive in their own right.
Now… if I could only train my husband so well… that’d be something.
Comment by kathy (September 25, 2006 @ 4:30 pm )
You still have time, Amy. You can get guineas instead. They did a great job of scaring this young blond 20 something Fedx gal. She wouldn’t get out of her vehicle. They surrounded her kaboinking loudly. They are not pink flamingos but they are let you know if snakes, intruders or what not arrive. They will even let you know if you have arrived home. This is good to know when you are tired from traveling with small childre sometimes you forget where you are. They roost in the highest trees and perform security checks all night long. They are entertaining too.
Though I will say your dog is much cuter than a guinea and I am sure that city ordinances would outlaw guinea fowl.
Comment by KSMilkmaid (September 25, 2006 @ 5:41 pm )
Oh, I get it his name is Knox for Obknoxious, right? Did I tell you we are getting a new dog too. A great pyrinese (sp?). They are 150 pounds and certainly compete with the Amish draft horse. My husband….uggh!! I think we could actually hook a cart to him and have him pull a plow.
Comment by KSMilkmaid (September 25, 2006 @ 5:43 pm )
hi amy,
just found your blog. i enjoyed reading your old posts. i love your lighthearted writing style, and how even when you’re encouraging/convicting you make us laugh. keep up the good work!
i especially enjoyed your comments on life in florida as i live in this [mosquito] paradise also.
would you mind if i quote some of them on my blog? i’d give you credit and such, i just want to share them with my friends in the great white north. (alright, i’m selfish-i want to prove i’m not crazy when i say fl isn’t perfect…haha)
anyway, i look forward to reading more of your writing later.
Comment by damaris (September 25, 2006 @ 5:46 pm )
I once asked my Grandfather how to train a dog. He said, “First, you have to be smarter than the dog.”
Have fun.
Comment by Tim (September 25, 2006 @ 5:57 pm )
We bought a Golden Retriever puppy last year in order to cure the intense fear our son had of dogs. (It worked by the way!) Samson is now well over 100 lbs. and the biggest sweetheart ever. He doesn’t even pretend to be vicious. He couldn’t if he tried. LOL! A local K-9 police officer does dog training on the side, so we shipped Samson to his home for 2 weeks. Money well spent! We honestly didn’t have time to train him, and now he is wonderfully obedient! He walks right by our side, comes when he’s called, etc. Hope your family will make some wonderful memories with Knox!
Comment by Laura in KY (September 25, 2006 @ 8:32 pm )
Oh my goodness, that dog is beautiful! Have I mentioned I love boxers and have two of them myself? They are so smart, you’ll have him fetching that mail in no time!
And, there is just something that makes you feel safe to have a big ole boxer curled up at your feet at night when your husband’s away! Wouldn’t trade them for all the tea in China!!
Comment by Lady Why (September 25, 2006 @ 11:17 pm )
Knox is adorable! And I bet you’ll be more in love with him than anyone in your house. Can’t wait for the crazy dog-blog posts!
Comment by rachelle (September 25, 2006 @ 11:24 pm )
Dillon 135 lb pure muscle
Mack 105 lb pure fat
We love our big dogs
Your Knox is soooo cute.
Comment by Janet (September 26, 2006 @ 12:17 am )
lol At this point, it is definately time to make the lemonade.
You know, maybe I’m looking at this all wrong and I need one too? How do you think they are at HTML and book editing?? Do you think he can tutor reading and math????? (!!)
Good Providence!
Comment by Janel (September 26, 2006 @ 7:06 am )
OH! LOL!!!
I hope you are all ready to PLAY! We have a 9 month old boxer, play…play…play…! You can read about our weekend with her on my blog. I have a daugher that is alomost 16 and she thinks she has this parenting/training thing all figured out…well the proof is in the puddin’…all her dog can do it sit! You can see our boxer at: http://highergroundtoday.blogspot.com/
She is fun! My husband and I are not big animal people, but our kids are. :o/
Comment by Kathy, Jeff's Wife (September 26, 2006 @ 8:57 am )
Common blog etiquette usually means that you cite or link to the source when quoting. Other than that, quote away!
Kathy, I like the “wipe your feet” trick. We will have to learn that one (after I teach it to the kids, ha).
For what it’s worth, Greg decided on a Boxer as the breed of choice for us for the following reasons: good with kids and loyal to the family, trainability, and watchdog-ness. I don’t know that any other breed has all those particular qualities and doesn’t shed (my one factor).
Comment by Amy Scott (September 26, 2006 @ 10:05 am )
Haha, love the story! I’m not really a dog person, although we have two who live outside. I like them, but I prefer my cat. Much less slobber…
But Knox is adorable! Get ‘em young, and train ‘em how you want!
Here’s one of my dog stories:
http://tobysthoughts-jtc.blogspot.com/2006/09/dog-story-1.html
Incidentally, I grew up in FL, and boy do I remember the flamingos!
Blessings!
Comment by joythruChrist (September 26, 2006 @ 3:59 pm )
For what it’s worth, Greg decided on a Boxer as the breed of choice for us for the following reasons: good with kids and loyal to the family, trainability, and watchdog-ness. I don’t know that any other breed has all those particular qualities and doesn’t shed (my one factor).
I know there are other breeds that fit that category…for us it has been our Miniature Schnauzer….she is great w/ the kids..has yet to tear up their toys or our socks/shoes etc…she doesnt shed..very willing to please us..very aware when anyone is around our house or pulling into our driveway …however I think she would sooner lick you to death than attack you
Enjoy your boxer….since it was due to a Boxer’s jealousy in how we ended up w/ our puppy …that bread will always have a special place in my heart
Christy
Comment by Christy (September 28, 2006 @ 8:59 am )
that is supposed to say “breed” NOT bread
(as my mom pointed out)
Grin
Christy
Comment by Christy (September 28, 2006 @ 10:38 am )
You know, a dog can be good to have. You can blame a lot of things on him *hint* - though you have to be a bit careful with what….
I have a brother-in-law that once were farting (!) in my home and blamed it on our dog (mix breed Boxer-Lab) - though he missed the fact that the dog wasn’t even around!!!
Comment by Mrs Lifecruiser (September 30, 2006 @ 11:31 am )