Repost #1
Friday, Oct 13, 2006
The scene occurred over ten years ago, but I can still remember it like yesterday. I was babysitting a group of little ones, and we were all gathered around the table late in the evening. The doorbell rang, and it was unexpected. We all looked at one another, asking with our eyes if anyone knew who it could be. Then the three-year-old inquires aloud in nineteenth century fashion, “Who could that be at this hour?!”
I don’t remember who was at the door or anything else about the occasion. I just recall taking note on the power of books, the influencing power of well-chosen words. Some writers write with a certain cadence that given enough exposure, draws you in and makes you begin thinking in the same manner that they write.
My eight-year-old is a diehard old-version Hardy Boys fan. He reads with obsession—about one book every day or two. It seems now that there are more days than books, and he is having to settle for reruns now. No doubt this is why he is always game for a decent “baffling mystery.”
In the same manner, old-fashioned girl books are the cause of my two-year-old’s sweet response, “Why, yes, I shall have some tea.” She also walks around saying, “Hello. I’m Johnny Cash,” but we don’t have to linger on that one.
As a man thinks in his heart, so is he. (Pr. 23:7) A situation occurred this afternoon that brought this to mind. Instead of choosing gentle words, I chose hard words, which resulted in my having to ask forgiveness. Like Anne Shirley, I am becoming adept at apologies lately. I wondered that if my mind was more saturated with Scripture, would I respond differently? Would I counter my usual response with godliness? Do we become like that which we read, enjoy, and meditate on?
The Bible teaches us so, as our children would aptly demonstrate.
…for I find my delight in your commandments,
which I love.
I will lift up my hands toward your commandments, which I love,
and I will meditate on your statutes.
~Psalm 119:47 - 48
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My niece once asked me in the car: Can you play that song again where he says “I shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die”.
She was 4.
That’s how I knew it was time to lay off the Cash, or save it for my IPOD…
Comment by kathy (October 13, 2006 @ 11:25 am )
My niece once asked me in the car: Can you play that song again where he says “I shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die”.
She was 4.
That’s how I knew it was time to lay off the Cash, or save it for my IPOD…
Comment by kathy (October 13, 2006 @ 11:25 am )
You always make me smile, Amy…to hear a little one imitating deep-throated Johnny Cash must be cute. I love your blog.
Memorizing scripture is something that helps me meditate more on God’s Word. For encouragement in that discipline I absolutly love the book, “His Word in My Heart” by Janet Pope. I know…no one really needs a book on memorizing, but it is a super encouraging resource :-). Enjoyed the post.
Comment by kat (October 13, 2006 @ 11:50 am )
You always make me smile, Amy…to hear a little one imitating deep-throated Johnny Cash must be cute. I love your blog.
Memorizing scripture is something that helps me meditate more on God’s Word. For encouragement in that discipline I absolutly love the book, “His Word in My Heart” by Janet Pope. I know…no one really needs a book on memorizing, but it is a super encouraging resource :-). Enjoyed the post.
Comment by kat (October 13, 2006 @ 11:51 am )
I ignored God’s Spirit, prompting me to have devos rather than sit down at the computer and this is what He led me directly to. Thank you for the conviction.
Comment by Heather (October 13, 2006 @ 2:20 pm )
I enjoy your blog!
My little 3 year old nephew is also a lover of books. He went for a visit to the next door liabrary last week and after he left all he could say was, “THAT was beautiful.”
Kids are so precious!
Comment by Ruth (October 13, 2006 @ 3:12 pm )
I seem to be like Anne Shirley too. Better to be adept at apologizing teaching our children to apologize than never to apologize teaching them to do the same.
Thanks for sharing,
Theresa
Comment by Theresa (October 14, 2006 @ 10:54 am )
Amy, this entry really encouraged me. Thank you for saying that we need to choose the right words. So much of the time they seem to just pop out, but I need to work on slowing down and choosing them. I, too, had several “Anne Shirley” moments this week because of my words. Thanks for this post!
Comment by Christa Blakey (October 14, 2006 @ 7:21 pm )
The old-version hardy boy books are great, so humorous and vocabulary builders too.
Life often comes at us so fast. Thanks for the reminder to carefully consider our words. God is so good to help us choose correctly when we take the time to ask Him for guidance. Blessings
Comment by GardenOfGrace (October 15, 2006 @ 12:18 am )
Your post has perfect timing for me. I am constantly letting words just fly out of my mouth without any conscience effort. Just last night I snapped at my husband as I was going over my bible study… I thought “What is wrong with this picture??”
I do enjoy your blog, keep up the good work!
Comment by Kelly (October 15, 2006 @ 8:47 am )
I beleive I posted above with the wrong web address
Comment by Kelly (October 15, 2006 @ 8:49 am )
just have to share… while visiting friends they showed us around their house. My just turned 3 year old son said, “What a nice bathtub you have.”
Comment by Amy S (October 15, 2006 @ 10:55 pm )
Per Amy’s suggestion…..
I started to share this on your blog, but decided it was undecidedly too long. So I am sending it to you privately to read at your leisure.
I empathize with being adept at apologies, Amy. Or should I say, “Ditto” to that. At least we can console ourselves that it is from us, their mothers, that they are learning the Art of Apologies and the Art of Being Forgiving from.
“Children who spend more time with Mom tend to become like her. They acquire her values in such areas as sharing, respect, use of money, and knowing what is important in life. They gain her wisdom in behaving properly, getting along with others, handling difficult situations, and pleasing God.” ~ Don Gilchrist in “Biblical Parenting”
As humbling as that may be, God has ordained that they learn from us.
“The same is true of the conscientious mother. She regularly studies the Bible and seeks wisdom from The Creator of her offspring, frequently sharing insight with her husband and praying with him. As a result, she has in mind what God wants her children to become, what they should learn (and not learn), and how they should behave. Even though aware of her own imperfections, she is loath to relinquish her children to another for daily training. No substitute, regardless of how qualified, ceritified, or sanctified, can train them to the complete satisfaction of the conscientious mother.” ~ Biblical Parenting
I’m quote happy, but am really enjoying going through this book again. Even the children were requesting more….I am reading it aloud since time to read on my own is pretty scarce these days.
I, too, have wondered if being in the Word more would help more with my responses. And what about the verse, “As a man thinketh so is he…”Proverbs 23:7 and Philippians 4:8. Don’t these indicate that what we are thinking on directly affects who we are at any given moment? So if we are thinking angry thoughts, aren’t angry responses likely to come out? Or if we are thinking how blessed we are, won’t sweeter respones occur? I know, no answers, but definitely lots to ponder.
We have noticed that what our children read directly influences how they act. But our thoughts and intents of heart have much to do with outward actions. Wouldn’t you agree that if we spent more time with the One whom we desire to emulate, we would act more like Him?
Your transparency and humor are truly a gift. No wonder you have so many readers. You are blessed.
Trust your weekend goes better. You are the best mother for your children. You are blessed to have them and they are blessed to have you! God does not make mistakes.
Blessings,
Theresa
Comment by Theresa (October 17, 2006 @ 1:47 am )