Squashed
Wednesday, Oct 18, 2006
If you’ve never seen a 30-year-old almost have a heart attack, then you weren’t there this morning when that dog ran through my vegetable garden. He squashed my squash. Good thing for me, as it happened; I had an appointment this morning with a general practitioner to be checked out. I figured now that I’m three-oh, I should be looking for things like – I don’t know—whatever diseases older people get.
I need some other blood work than just the usual obstetric panel. Which, if you’re keeping count, I’ve had drawn seven times in the past nine years.
Around these parts, a five-kid family is huge. So, as it goes, the topic for my first visit with the general doc is my fertility. I rather enjoy the discussion usually. Really, most people are just curious about how much food costs and what our shoe closet must look like. For the record, he’s a very nice doc, even if he is a little too close to my own age.
Any psychiatric disorders? [snicker, snicker]
Do you drink? [snicker, snicker]
Are you under stress? [laugh, howl]
This was just the nurse who did the prescreening. When the doctor came in, he mentioned, “You don’t see such LARRRRGE families anymore.” Ha, ha, I thought, You should meet the wackos who read my blog. Five is nothing. But instead I just said, “And yes, I’ve seen that family on TV….”
“You know, the only people that have tons of children anymore are…” He paused as he searched for the right words for “right wing Christian fundamentalists,” or maybe it was “Muslim terrorists” but I wasn’t quite sure. He trailed off, and I let him off the hook by changing the subject to my great blood pressure stats. It’s always 110/70. I’m in great shape. This is good, because I need all my oomph to keep that dog out of my garden.
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Oh, and I am surprised your blood pressure was at it’s normal after “that dog” ran through your garden—mine would have been up a couple of notches!
Comment by Andrea (October 18, 2006 @ 11:24 pm )
I hope to someday have a large family…Lord-willing! Maybe I’ll even pass up your five…=D
Comment by Heidi (October 19, 2006 @ 5:53 am )
These days when I’m tempted to think that Amy of the Humble Musings is perfect, I remind myself that she recently acquired a puppy. Shows a definite weakness in the otherwise stellar wisdom department. Can you tell how much I love animals?? : )
I used to hear myself often saying, “We only have four.” Now that we have five I’ve noticed I don’t say ‘only’ any more. I hope to have time for a couple more. Sure wish I was one of the ‘wackos’ (what a hoot) who have 8 or 9 (and counting)!
Comment by Charmin (October 19, 2006 @ 6:32 am )
Now that the Whack-a-mole tag is out, I realize why having 7 kids labels me a wacko. I rather like the term. I’m starting to feel a little wacko today…. and the kids are still asleep!!! I think I feel a blog coming on….
Comment by martha (October 19, 2006 @ 7:12 am )
Wow, 30 old??? I must be ancient!!
I really believe that having children keeps you young. We have 4 children. I would have enjoyed having more, but my husband thinks 4 is plenty for us, so as I trust in the Lord to direct our family through him, I have grown satisfied with our “small” family. Blessings
Comment by GardenOfGrace (October 19, 2006 @ 9:16 am )
“…whatever diseases older people get”? OLDER people? Older people. I couldn’t get past that line.
Comment by Everyday Mommy (October 19, 2006 @ 10:16 am )
So funny! I love it that you have such a great sense of humour about the comments! My family doctor at the time of my pregnancies kept hinting that I should go for four (he had four children). Due to life threatening pregnancy complications we had to stop at three, and he was actually disappointed, lol!!
Comment by Amy (October 19, 2006 @ 11:48 am )
I come from a family of six children. As a teenager, someone asked me if my parents were stopping at six or were trying to have a big family. I kind of thought that six counted as a big family. I guess they were thinking of the family with 10!
Comment by Claire Weaver (October 19, 2006 @ 2:06 pm )
I think I must hang out on momys too much cuz 5 seems like a small family to me. And expecting my 6th? Doesn’t seem to make it much larger at all!
I’m seeing a midwife today and I’m 36. Think I’ll make it through? Is that arthritis I feel coming on? :0)
Comment by Lyn (October 19, 2006 @ 2:21 pm )
“hyperchildrenemia” —- ROTFLOL!
I get that a lot from many people, but not my family doc. He’s given up on us.
Also Amy
Comment by Also Amy (October 19, 2006 @ 4:10 pm )
Oh, my… I will officially be considered an “older person” in May. Oh dear… as if I didn’t feel old enough already.
Better schedule a tune-up soon, don’t want my body to fall further apart the morning of….
And BTW, my children tend to make me feel older, not younger… what am I doing wrong???
Comment by Laura (October 19, 2006 @ 5:26 pm )
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Trackback by Bioluminescence (October 19, 2006 @ 5:34 pm )
My in laws think I’m a wacko. they also told us with a serious face, “Why would want to have a another child? two is perfect, do you want to end up like those wackos? that would be terrible.”
This all started cause I said I liked mini vans!
Proud to be one of those wackos!!!
pray for us, trying to have a 3rd.
Comment by Anonymous (October 19, 2006 @ 6:08 pm )
Well, I’m 26 (Nov 28th will make me 27) and we have 4 children 5 and under. I pray that we will have more. Am I a wacko? Sure. Why not? I’m already weird. After all, I wear a head covering, wear only dresses and homeschool my children. What’s one more thing? Although it is interesting how many times I hear “oh how perfect is your family!” (we have two girls and two boys, in that order). I never have but I’ve wanted to ask “does that mean any other combo is not perfect?”
Just wonderin’.
Jennifer
Comment by Jennifer D (October 19, 2006 @ 8:05 pm )
Hey Amy and all the rest of you “wackos”–I love ya! When I grow up I want to be just like y’all, making jaws drop wherever I go.
Come to think of it, I already do, and I’m barely showing with #3!
Comment by Margaret (October 19, 2006 @ 8:39 pm )
“Older”???? (my voice is rising into a squeak). Let’s just say 30 sounds pretty young, especially since my oldest will be closer to 3-0 than 2-0 next February.
But you all can appreciate what my Dr’s nurse said to me when I was a little upset about comments concerning my family size (we were at 4 and ended up with 7). “You’ve got a little family…they’re all quite little.” She was a mom of 5 and understood better than most, bless her!
Comment by MamaTod (October 19, 2006 @ 9:23 pm )
Amy,
Your posts always leave me laughing out loud!!! I can’t wait until my family is larger (so far, we just have 3 living children).
I love your sense of humor - what makes it so funny is that it speaks such truth, “he paused as he searched for the right words for ‘right wing Christian fundamentalists’”. I just rolled!!!!!
Have a blessed night,
Dana
Comment by Dana (October 19, 2006 @ 11:48 pm )
I’m always amazed by people who think it’s important to weigh in on how they think you should stop breeding. I’ve had that discussion with my docs for the past 3 or 4 years. Of course, now I’m massively infertile, so they aren’t so worried but at first they were aghast that I didn’t want to be put on bcp.
Comment by Lori (October 21, 2006 @ 11:14 am )
Oh, and it totally flips my switch when the dog gets into my garden..and I’m a lot older than you are.
Comment by Lori (October 21, 2006 @ 11:14 am )
around here anything more then 2 children is considered
brave.
my moms family was an exception….she was the 11th of 12 kids!
Comment by Ruth (October 21, 2006 @ 12:51 pm )
I guess I’m a “wacko” too! At eight children and counting, I think that “right wing Christian fundamentalist” thing
might fit me too!
Thank you so much for sharing! I always enjoy your posts!
Comment by Tracy (October 21, 2006 @ 5:31 pm )
HI, When I went to the doctors when I was expecting no.4 in reasonable quick sucession (oldest was 5) my doctor asked me with genuine concern “what happened?” - wasn’t sure whether to start a biology lesson there and then!! Having moved and with different doc surgery and expecting no.5 my midwife thinks I am wonderful and a real earth mother - I won’t disallusion her!!!
Re. age - a couple years ago a newly aquired friend looked at our wedding photo from 8yrs ago and commented how we had ‘aged’ (I was only 30 at the time)- the true effect of kids!!
love your blog
Comment by donns (October 23, 2006 @ 4:13 am )