Journaling without a punch line
Saturday, Jan 20, 2007
Greg lets me out of the house every now and then. As it happens, I don’t care to leave too often. Everything I love most is right here, though I haven’t always known this.
Last night we engaged a babysitter and left for a quiet dinner on the pier, just the two of us. Before there were seven, there were two. (Not for long, though.) As we approached the beach, dozens of surfers were leaving as the sun was going down. Some were in wetsuits and some wore only shorts. The surf was impressive, as was the weather. I miss Florida and we haven’t even left yet.
There are a few restaurants on the Cocoa Beach pier. We chose the one with salt water tanks and nice views of the waves. The bands outside were gearing up—fifty-something-year-old men in flip flops, Hawaiian shirts, and guitars. They are the rock stars who play for tips in plastic Solo cups, recently emptied of beer and dreams.
I ordered shrimp scampi and Greg had the catch-of-the-day, which was tuna. I thought tuna only came in a can. Greg talked about work and told me a funny story. His buddy went squirrel hunting with his son. They didn’t catch anything. On the way home, they ran over—guess what– a squirrel. This was funny to me, but I thought it was more humorous that we were talking about it. Usually Greg just forwards me his friend’s email.
We left without ordering dessert. On our way out, we stopped to watch some fishermen and to listen to Soul Man. (I’m a soooul man. I’m a soooul man.) The keyboard guy played with one hand. The next song, he was the lead singer and guitar player. I’m certain his versatility was due to good music theory during childhood piano lessons. Piano players are a good breed.
We drove home slowly even though our babysitter was still on-the-clock. Today is another day. We added fig and plum trees to our “orchard.” I will rehearse music for tomorrow’s service, and when that is done, we will eat, play, and work some more.
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It is so wonderful to look back on a day and realize how fulfilled you are just for having done your daily duties with pride and humility, at the same time even. What a great way to wrap up a day…with your sweetheart and a moment or two of quiet togetherness.
Comment by Aubrey (January 20, 2007 @ 5:15 pm )
My husband and I have always made time and and found money for Date Nights. In some seasons, we went out once a week; more often, it’s been only twice a month.
But those times have been so important for us, over the years. I always think of them as “re-connecting.”The image that comes to mind is that sometimes the plug isn’t quite firmly in the outlet, or it’s even fallen out; those times alone are like making sure that the connection between us is secure. And sometimes we’ve used them to figure out why we keep shorting out!
What a blessing it is to have a good connection with your husband!
Comment by At A Hen's Pace (January 20, 2007 @ 5:50 pm )
Awww…thanks for such a sweet post, so illustrative of what marriage after children can and should be. I loved it!
Comment by Granny (January 20, 2007 @ 8:08 pm )
I must ask… why are you leaving this weather paradise you call home?? We lived in Florida (Jacksonville… which is really too far north to truly enjoy the year round summer. We actually had snow in Jacksonville one winter when we were there. It was the Blizzard of ‘93 for the rest of the deep south.) and I couldn’t wait to get home again (which is Alabama for us) But, I must say I loooong for the year round summer again! I so ’strongly dislike’ winter… even Alabama winters. It’s cold up here!! I sit here at my computer with a driving rain and 40 degree high forecasted for today. Give me the beach, flip flops and a little ‘Soul Man’!!!
(I’m not coveting… really I’m not. At least that’s what I’m telling myself!)
Comment by Lady Why (January 21, 2007 @ 12:46 pm )
This is a lovely snapshot, Amy–of the sort that people can and should savour, whether married or not, with or without children. We pay too little attention to these moments with our spouses, with our friends, at work. You have a delicate touch with your writing that captures these treasures beautifully.
Comment by Mrs. P. (January 21, 2007 @ 1:34 pm )
“Everything I love most is right here, though I haven’t always known this.”
How sweet. I feel/have felt the same way.”
Sounds like your evening out to celebrate was nice as well.
Comment by Andrea (January 21, 2007 @ 4:27 pm )
Hi Amy,
I know you like contests. I’m giving away the apron I won in the Mommy Life Apron Contest. C’mon over!
Comment by Connie (January 21, 2007 @ 7:57 pm )
Yes, it is wonderful to love being at home and yet enjoy those set apart times with our husbands. Blessings
Comment by GardenOfGrace (January 22, 2007 @ 8:00 am )
Lady Why,
We’d like to have more land. Local land prices (and our budget, I suppose) forbid more than 1/3 acre lot. Land can still be purchased for less than $2k an acre in some places. Wow!
It is part of a forward thinking plan to launch our children into their adult lives debt-free. Ambitious? Yes, but not impossible with a radical lifestyle change.
Comment by Amy Scott (January 22, 2007 @ 12:07 pm )
Ahhh, I admire your reasons… and you can buy land for $2,000 an acre here in Alabama! But, it’s COLD here!
I really do love Alabama and I really did want to leave Florida and come home. But, I always reconsider come January and February… and March has been known to be brutal from time to time! Maybe I need a winter home in Florida… hmmm, I’ll have to see if my husband will go for that! Ha!
Comment by Lady Why (January 22, 2007 @ 4:06 pm )
your first paragraph could have been written by me. My neighbors think I am crazy, friends don’t understand. They go out weekly and don’t understand why I wouldn’t. You said it perfectly.
Comment by janet (January 23, 2007 @ 1:46 am )
Wow. That sound like such a lovely evening. Now I want to go on vacation! Somehow, a night with hubby around here just doesn’t sound the same. “We ran to the car shivering, and then went to the same old steakhouse. You know the ONLY place in the area that we found a good waiter at. After dinner, we came home and crashed at 9pm.”
Comment by momanna98 (January 23, 2007 @ 10:00 am )
momanna98,
When I first read a book by Charles Martin (recommended to me here when I made dished about hokey Christian fiction), it caught me as strange when he mentioned the St. John’s River in his book. Charles Martin, the author, is a Florida resident and his books are set in Floridian climates. I thought to myself, “Well, I’ve seen the St. John’s, and it surely ain’t like that! You can barely keep your eyes open to see it, as the mosquitoes will eat your eyeballs.” Yes, we were looking at the same thing.
One time I read a post by someone I didn’t know who was talking about me. She wrote something like, “How come all the funny things happen to Amy Scott?” I realized that we were living much of the same life but something was different, as my life was much more exciting: bunch of kids, husband, homeschooling, keeping track of the dumb dog…
When it is all over, you will remember the days at the steakhouse with fondness: its familiarity, the fact that you didn’t need a menu, and how you always knew the check price before the server brought it to you. Perhaps you will notice the old couple who always went there on Thursdays too.
Comment by Amy Scott (January 23, 2007 @ 3:13 pm )