Settling
Monday, Jan 22, 2007
Florida oranges in January are akin to northerner’s summer zucchini; they’re basically free for the taking. Usually my children peel their oranges, and on occasion, they’ll slice them into wedges first. This morning was different, however. I hand-squeezed several glasses of orange juice. We drank the oranges instead of eating them.
What followed left me incredulous. My girls took a swig, put the glass down, and declared, “This does not taste like Publix orange juice.”
“Exactly.”
“We like Publix orange juice better.”
My oldest son– the only person with any sense left– was gleeful. “More for us, yippee! They don’t know what they’re missing, Mom! Right?”
Of course, my son is right. While my daughters gladly prefer a cheap imitation over the real thing, my son recognizes he’s been gypped. He’s smart. Years of consuming inferior juice have left my girls with an appetite for it. The only way the juice I offered them this morning would be “more real” is if they poked straws into oranges still hanging on the tree. My girls haven’t just settled for processed juice; they prefer it! It’s madness.
Yet everyday we exchange our birthrights for a bowl of soup and fake orange juice when we believe that this is all there is. Christians are called to live with Christ the King in sight. When we believe His promises and then pray even still for more faith, we drink the real stuff.
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When I first started making homemade ma-n-cheese, my boys response was, “We like the stuff in the blue box better Mom.” Huh? You’re right…we get so accustomed to settling, that we don’t realize the wonderful things we’re missing.
As Christians, we so often settle for so much less than He has to offer.
Great post!
Comment by Angela (January 22, 2007 @ 1:54 pm )
Well said, Amy!!!
This post reminds me of churches. Sooo much watering down today. Soooo much giving in to culture. We need to follow the Word NOT the world.
Thank you!
His,
Mrs. U
http://www.makingahouseahome.blogspot.com
Comment by Mrs. U (January 22, 2007 @ 2:06 pm )
Talk about settling…My kids like anything made by Chef Boyardee, or the Walmart store brand version of it. I can’t even smell the stuff without heaving. They only get it when I’m out of the house.
Are you feeling better?
Comment by Jo (January 22, 2007 @ 4:04 pm )
Maybe your girls would be more interested if you did stick straws in the oranges? When we lived in Sarasota we had a little orange tree and my mom found these neat plastic straws that were strong enough to stick right into the orange, and big enough that you could suck out a lot of great pulpy juice. We used to beg to be allowed to drink and orange!
Comment by Margaret (January 22, 2007 @ 4:28 pm )
Jo, I’m all good; thanks for asking. Greg and I got our first full night’s sleep in a long while last night. That sure helps!
Margaret, We have those juice straws, but the kids don’t like how they work. They’re a little tricky.
Comment by Amy Scott (January 22, 2007 @ 4:42 pm )
This reminded me of when I made my first loaf of Bread Machine bread…my husband’s response was, “This tastes healthy.” Thanks for the great reminder that we often settle for so much less than the real hope we have in Christ!
Comment by Lisa (January 22, 2007 @ 5:51 pm )
My son’s reaction to “natural” peanut butter was quite similar, due to the fact that it has no added SUGAR. Amazing how much
stuffjunk we eat has so MUCH!Comment by /tim (January 22, 2007 @ 5:56 pm )
Ha! That is funny….. We’re in Phoenix and are getting lots of orange and grapefruit ‘donations’ lately! (we only have a lemon tree) The fresh squeezed just doesn’t taste like store bought. Maybe you could boil it, condense it, then reconstitute it for them. Or you could just make them peel their own. lol
Silly kids
Comment by crickl's nest (January 22, 2007 @ 6:05 pm )
Excellent analogy, Amy. My husband has worked most of his life in the citrus industry and we personally owned 30 acres of orange grove. In the years before canker, when he could leave the grove with fresh fruit every day, we drank nothing but fresh squeezed OJ and grapefruit juice. Canker regulations changed everything. We now buy our OJ at Publix, but we buy Florida’s Natural to drink, and the Publix brand for baking. My older boys drank fresh squeezed OJ like it was water, but Emily is much younger than they are and did not benefit from those years of the “real stuff”. What she doesn’t like about drinking fresh squeezed juice is the pulp. It never bothered the boys.
Comment by Patricia of Pollywog Creek (January 22, 2007 @ 10:48 pm )
Amy, I love what you said! It reminded me of what I am feeding Jonathan (our 10 month old boy) right now. I’ve completely skipped the baby food, and he is learning right away to like flavorful things. No “kid food” allowed. He is eating things like guacamole - it’s SO funny to see him eat it, for he sometimes gets a bite with extra garlic and he shakes his head around in dislike for the heat, then opens up for more :-). I also have him eating lots of shredded carrots with pineapple, baked mashed sweet potatoes, and steamed veggies (mashed with lemon pepper & salt). A few days ago I tried feeding him some green beans (in baby food form), and he found it revolting!
Comment by Danielle (January 23, 2007 @ 3:33 am )
What a beautiful illustration. How easy it is to be caught up in the worlds tangle of “good” things and miss out on God’s best. Thanks for the lovely reminder. Blessings
Comment by GardenOfGrace (January 23, 2007 @ 8:43 am )
wow Amy, so well said! Hubby and I were talking about this just last night..maybe I will post about it. The main point was we met an old friend we hadn’t seen in years, and he seemed sad, and said he was so spiritually dry right now..and he is a pastor! In discussing this, I wondered if maybe he was disheartened by the situation so prevelent in Christianity today, has he been pouring himself out to minister to people who do not seem to be running after God whole-heartedly? I thought of the image of selling our birthright for a bowl of soul comfort. I am sad that many don’t realize we can abide with Christ today…instead of comforting our self desires and running after other things, putting off abiding till some distant far off day when we will be in heaven.
the real food thing- years ago we read the Little house books, one activity we did for homeschool was to study maple syrup making, and one morning we made blueberry pancakes and ate them with different types of syrup, including real maple syrup-which we do not usually use…because of price. We graphed our results of who like what best, and I was so shocked that all the children, including a friends kids-preferred the imitation syrup to the real thing. They had developed a taste for it, and to them-that was what syrup was supposed to taste like.
i guess you could come up with a whole spiritual lesson from that…maybe a post in the making?!
thanks for sharing,
Jenny in Ca
Comment by Jenny in Ca (January 23, 2007 @ 1:35 pm )
A piercing analogy, and I love your brevity. A point well made in succinct fashion. Bloggers often forget that less is more. Well done.
Comment by Everyday Mommy (January 23, 2007 @ 1:49 pm )
If only I could talk this briefly as well, I’m sure it’d please all.
Comment by Amy Scott (January 23, 2007 @ 2:40 pm )
My friend actually works in the orange industry in Florida, and he says they have to toss a lot of the oranges aside that dont’ look “pretty” - aren’t bright orange, perfectly round, etc. etc. You know, pretty much the way they look in the store. But the ironic thing is, he says, is that the more deformed, duller oranges tend to be juicier and more flavorful. But they wouldn’t sell, because they’re not pretty.
Indicative of our society, I say.
Comment by Toblerone (January 24, 2007 @ 3:44 pm )
I’m trying to imagine the luxury of plucking an orange off a tree and enjoying it FRESH!! Obviously we don’t grow ‘em here in New Brunswick. My grandmother tried to grow one in her home and ended up with shriveled, SOUR, tiny fruit that we used as practical jokes!
Loved the post!! How true that we hold on to what we know and miss out on the wonderful, new and better that God has for us.
Comment by martha (January 24, 2007 @ 11:21 pm )
My daughter is at an age where her friends are handing her books to read that they themselves enjoyed. I’m feeding her good solid books as quickly as she’ll digest them. I want her to learn to not settle for poor or sleazy writing.
Comment by Laurie (January 27, 2007 @ 6:09 pm )