Life With Three Under Three - #4
Tuesday, Feb 20, 2007
This is a true story. A couple years ago, Greg took it upon himself to help out in the kitchen. So he began racking up the points with his wife by wiping the counters. A clean rag and bottle of purple stuff—what’s so hard about that? A couple swipes in and POP! He breaks the tendon on his third finger.
He ends up with anesthesia, surgery, a metal pin, a bottle of good drugs, and months of therapy. (He skipped the therapy but not the drugs, “Physical therapy for a finger?!” he laughed at the nurse.) To appreciate the story, you have to know that Greg launches 260-foot high metal containers of highly combustible liquids for a living and builds furniture using table saws, routers, and other things that have fast-moving carbide teeth. He trims the oak tree in our front yard by himself and climbs on our two-story roof whenever necessary. He also attends me while I’m in labor (the nurse at my fourth delivery will attest to the danger in that).
The kitchen incident is a great party story. Greg admits that he isn’t Mr. Gourmet in the kitchen. Cooking duties rest primarily on me, and we are all happy (and alive) with this arrangement. This is how it works in our house, and so you can imagine that it gets sticky when I’m out of commission. People keep wanting to eat whether I’m sick or not.
If you’re not keen on leftovers, then you will not enjoy my second unorthodox method of getting along in a house full of babies. I always make enough food for several meals so that I do not have to cook every night. I do not make one chicken pot pie; I make eight of them. We eat chicken pot pie for two nights usually, and then I freeze the rest. Your mileage may vary, so feel free to adjust this.
Think about it this way. If you make eight chicken pot pies over the course of a few months, you will have to clean up the mess eight times instead of just once. That’s eight pans to make the saucy stuff (chicken broth, butter, milk, salt, pepper, thyme and flour…boil), eight knives to cut up the veggies, etc. Then you have to cook the chicken eight times while keeping the dog out of it. Why not do it just once? A fresh salad, veggies, and/or fruit, and voila—dinner is served.
So there you have it. If you stay at our house for a week, you will only get three different dinners. If you’re a hankerin’ for something different though, feel free to defrost a little pot pie from the freezer.
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Amy,
I would love the recipe for that Chicken Pot Pie!
And I completely agree with the wisdom of making a number of meals at once!
~Stacy
Comment by Stacy (February 20, 2007 @ 1:40 pm )
I am really enjoying these posts. I only have 1 under three and 5 over but these are still *very* educational for me. I would also love that recipe. Can you post it?
Comment by Maria (February 20, 2007 @ 1:59 pm )
Once again, you show yourself to be the most sensible and balanced woman I know! (Er, don’t know?) The story about Greg and the tendon made my laugh so hard I almost cried. And these posts about practical ways of dealing with laundry and cooking are excellent reminders to anyone, with or without a houseful of children, about what counts and what works, at home and elsewhere.
I’m always _vaguely_ suspicious about ladies who seem to do everything about the house perfectly and without the slightest hint of anything other than saintly patience. ‘Cause I think those ladies are probably fooling themselves, and attempting to fool the rest of us. Humour–sharp humour, with a touch of edge–and admitting that sometimes it’s more important to get the job done than to get it done in a particular _way_, will win me over every time, I must say!
So thanks for this, Amy. Always put one’s day in perspective!
Comment by Mrs. P. (February 20, 2007 @ 2:14 pm )
Great post! Please give the recipe for pot pies and the instructions for freezing and defrosting them. I’m still trying to figure all of this out. (My mother taught me how to order pizza instead of cook.)
Thanks!
Comment by Pam (February 20, 2007 @ 3:06 pm )
I love this series you are doing. I don’t have that many, only three. However, I still have my moments. For example…….when we start thinking about moving - searching for places, decluttering and packing; homeschool; housework, etc. THEN, having two out of three out with the flu.
That is just life. I really appreciate your posts. I feel normal (or as normal as I can be.)
~Candi
Comment by Candi (February 20, 2007 @ 3:12 pm )
P.S. I also would love that recipe.
Comment by Candi (February 20, 2007 @ 3:14 pm )
I buy bulk ground beef and brown it all then stick it in freezer bags for quick meals. It defrosts in minutes in the microwave. Think of all the ground beef possibilities!
I love cutting corners too :). Great posts. Thanks!
Comment by Craig'sWifeTiff (February 20, 2007 @ 5:09 pm )
We have the same situation here– meaning my husband can’t really cook to save his life. (He is limited to frying eggs, boiling pasta, and mixing tuna salad. Period.) This is fine by me because cooking/baking is the one of the few household chores I truly enjoy. However, whenever I am newly pregnant (as I currently am for the 4th time in 4 years) this arrangement wreaks havoc in our home. If I brown the meat, I end up running to the toilet every few minutes, and him browning the meat just isn’t a viable option. (I say this in all respect, as he does plenty that I could never even pretend to do.)
So now I’m curious to know how you handle food prep in the midst of pregnancy yuckies. I’ve no doubt you’ve developed a system and I am anxious to benefit!
Comment by brietta (February 20, 2007 @ 5:29 pm )
yea - thanks for this series Amy - I also, though only have 3 littles “double up” and freeze but hey we don’t all have freezers big enough to make **8**.
No doubt your rocket scientist has built you a custom size freezer!!!!
Every blessing to you and your family
Comment by Elaine (February 20, 2007 @ 5:40 pm )
Amy, Do you have that many cassarole dishes? Do you freeze in the cassaroles? Where do you store all of that stuff when it’s not in the freezer? I have limited storage space, and freezer space for that matter. Do you freeze before it’s baked or after? I’d love a good pot pie recipe, too.
!
Comment by Another Heather (February 20, 2007 @ 6:33 pm )
By my fourth (and current) pregnancy, we started to get a good routine for dinner in the first trimester (I’m nauseous all day)…my husband is also limited in what he can cook, but he loves to grill! and does so even in the winter…so a few nights a week I would crawl to the kitchen to throw baked potatos in and he would throw meat on the grill when he arrived home…he also likes to make pancakes and can scramble eggs and cut up fruit, so we fit those in during the week too. The other nights? My husband makes the kids Annie’s mac and cheese or natural hot dogs, rifles through the fridge and pantry for his own dinner, and brings me dry cereal to munch on. Not exactly gourmet, but we got through the early stages of this last pregnancy peacefully and did not starve. We even ate on real dishes most of the time
Comment by Stephanie (February 20, 2007 @ 7:49 pm )
a new trick I learned is lining the casarole dish with foil, make the caserole, freeze and then remove it from the pan so it can be used again while the frozen food waits in the freezer. (then you just pull the food out, stick it in your always available pan and cook.)
Comment by peculiarbeauty (February 20, 2007 @ 8:16 pm )
I just love reading your posts! I have 3 under 4. The youngest is 5 months and there are so many days that I feel like I am running around like a chicken with my head cut off! By the time dinner gets here, we end up eating fast food and waste soo much $$$ on Wendy’s drive thru!!
I am really going to use these tips!!!
Thank you so much!
Comment by Linsey (February 20, 2007 @ 8:55 pm )
I just want to say a huge thank you to all of you ladies for this series and the comments. Once when we had 3 under 3 I tried a mom’s chat room thing and just put out the question “Is anyone else out there who is glad to do this, committed to doing this, but finding this extremely hard?” No one had an honest answer. They all told me the “right” answer: ‘Life is great. God is good. We are so thrilled and everything is great.’ While I would never disagree about that second bit, the other bits weren’t always the first things out of my lips. Your honesty here is going to give ladies the help I needed in those days. Now, by the way, we have 6 between 8 years and 8 months. And God is still good.
Comment by Barbara (February 20, 2007 @ 9:25 pm )
Thank you so much for this series, Amy. I have 4dc, 8 and under (our last three came in three years) and we are expecting #5 in July. I always plan on eating a meal two nights. I also always double spaghetti sauce and freeze half of it. I have also found that homemade mac-n-cheese can be doubled and frozen. I put these foods into gallon-size ziploc bags and lay them flat in the freezer–they can be stacked and don’t take as long to defrost! I view browned ground beef and cooked chicken in the freezer as an insurance policy. I am loving the laundry tips and appreciate the “permission” not to fold!!
Thanks again
Wendy
Comment by wendy (February 20, 2007 @ 9:32 pm )
Another vote for the recipe, please.
Comment by Connie (February 21, 2007 @ 9:23 am )
You know, I have been pondering these posts. I guess because I am not in the thick of having three under three anymore, I have totally forgotten what it was like. I had 3 children in 30 months. So in certain times of the year they fall chronologically. Right now they are 8, 6, 5. So I guess those moments melt away and you just remember your happy ones and not the harried so much. There are challenges, they just change with age. As they do get older you can have intelligent conversations, they learn to get all the food in thier mouths, the diapers do end. (Although with some of them I had questions.) I still have littles, but just not so many anymore. My children range in ages from 11, 8, 6, 5, 3, 2. I am breathing a little easier now days due to the fact that I do have an older daughter and son that are quite capable of running the house if need be. Hang in there, perserverance grows character.
Comment by Kelly Bowland (February 21, 2007 @ 10:41 am )
In my book, you can’t post about chicken pot pie without a recipe - c’mon Amy!
Comment by Catherine (February 21, 2007 @ 11:19 am )
Greg makes great hamburgers though….
Comment by Eryn (February 21, 2007 @ 12:24 pm )
I am loving these posts. Thank you so much! I have started doing more and more freezer cooking. I LOVE it! It makes the “bewitching” hour so much easier.
Comment by momanna98 (February 21, 2007 @ 2:36 pm )
It’s not that I can’t handle the smells of the food; it’s that I’m so sick I don’t even get off the couch. We eat sandwiches, bagged lettuce for salads, and lots of baked potatoes with fixins’. It looks a lot like Stephanie (#11).
Sometimes I freeze; mostly we just eat a dish two nights in a row. I will copy and paste a work-in-progress menu ideas at the end here. There are about 2-3 that we didn’t care for, but I can’t remember which ones they were.
Usually before it’s baked. Like others have mentioned, sometimes I’ll assemble the ingredients in a gallon-size ziploc bag, freeze, thaw, dump in a 9 x 13, cook.
Eryn is a former member of Greg’s youth group.
Yes, we let Greg near the grill. I don’t grill. I have to draw the line somewhere. Greg likes to grill; it’s a man thing. Kind of like he always drives when we ride together.
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Here is the menu idea document sitting on my desktop:
Loaded Baked Potato Soup (Do not add the salt)
http://recipes.robbiehaf.com/PQ/314.htm
Chicken pot pie (MOMYS cookbook)
*Chicken Divan over rice w/vegetable
http://www.dinnersinthefreezer.com/article1018.shtml
*Bacon Wrapped Chicken with a fresh salad (Atkins!!)
http://www.dinnersinthefreezer.com/article1011.shtml
*Lemon Chicken over rice w/vegetable
http://www.dinnersinthefreezer.com/article1017.shtml
*Beef Noodle Supreme w/salad
http://www.dinnersinthefreezer.com/article1003.shtml
Grilled Cheese and Tomato Soup
Baked Potato w/toppings and Salad
*Spaghetti and Meatballs or Italian Sausage w/salad
*Stuffed shells w/salad
Fettuccini Alfredo with chopped fresh tomatoes and basil
*Shepherd’s Pie
Macaroni and Cheese w/ cut up hot dogs
*Shredded lime pork loin (+olive oil), black beans, over rice and sour cream
Open-faced ham and cheese broiled on hamburger buns and veggie sticks w/dip
Homemade Pizza
*Casserole: noodles, tomato soup, sour cream, black beans, corn, hamburger
*Ham & Pineapple Casserole (Where’s that recipe?) and salad greens
*Lasagna
http://www.easyfoodnetwork.com/view.php?ItemID=276
*Beefy Rice Casserole (don’t need to precook rice!!!)
http://www.dinnersinthefreezer.com/article1026.htm
Wraps (flat bread, meat, cheese, mayo, chopped tomato, pickles, bean sprouts) and veggie sticks
Tacos or taco pie
http://www.easyfoodnetwork.com/view.php?ItemID=374
Chili
Combine 2 boxes of Pasta Roni, Kielbasa, and frozen green beans
Bacon, Tomato slice, cheese on wheat Bagel, Broil, Ranch on the side and carrot sticks
Hawaiian stir fry (find recipe) over rice
Chicken curry (Coconut milk, curry powder, chili powder, tomato sauce, garlic, onion, potatoes, carrots)
Pasta with olive oil, garlic, basil, parmesan, salt, pepper, diced tomatoes, maybe a little ricotta
Fried chicken or ham, Donna’s potato salad thing, baked beans
Potato soup (4 hours in the crock pot)
Roast and veggies in the crock pot
* = Double and freeze
Comment by Amy Scott (February 21, 2007 @ 5:34 pm )
Oh for the space for a large freezer!
Comment by Susanna (February 24, 2007 @ 3:57 pm )
Hi Amy!
I really can relate to this post from a kid’s point of view. While my mother did not cook with leftovers in mind she did have a very limited menu. For supper all of my growing up years we probably only had the same 8 or 9 simple meals (that usually included potatoes in some form) with a very special one thrown in every couple of months. Nobody knew any different. She wasn’t burded with thinking of something new and creative all the time and we really liked the food. To this day, all of us grown kids LOVE potatoes and each of her plain simple meals!
Nobody is going to die eating only 3 different meals in one week. I bet your family just loves it. We all KNOW anything baked in a delicious crust (like chicken pot pie) is good enough to eat twice in a row : )
Trixie
Comment by Trixie (February 24, 2007 @ 7:17 pm )