The last leg
Monday, Jun 18, 2007
Continuing on down the road, we left the mountains of North Carolina for a little town in southern Tennessee. We were already road weary, but a local told us that the trip should only take five hours. We could handle that. Why it took us seven hours with no mishaps, I can’t say. But this is the story of my life, so I should’ve known. It was a Saturday afternoon with no holiday traffic.
Our first stop was a little five acre place. I found the place for sale online and talked occasionally with the owners over the last several months. (We weren’t looking for five acres, but I worked the possibility of buying acreage from an adjoining parcel.) They were a wealth of information on the area and didn’t seem to mind all my questions. In fact, she called me a couple times with other leads. Only in the country…
When we pulled on down the lane, we had our first inkling that our search may have ended. There was a drought in the area, and the first rain had just ended. Everything was still, as if it were concentrating on soaking in every drop. Amish farms lined the narrow road, and their haystacks were piled in teepees by pitchfork. Black and white Holsteins grazed pasture, and the corn rows went as far as you could see. The homes were modest, plain, but well-kept. Handmade signs for vegetables, butter, and lumber hung by the roadside.
The farmhouse we were inquiring about had all the modern conveniences inside, but maintained a somewhat plain façade. There were barns and other out-buildings where barnyard cats, chicks, a sheep, and bunnies-for-sale were kept. A little pond sat on the front of the property. Our children made friends real quick with the owners’ three children, and that was that. They were off, and I felt fine with letting them go. As far as I could tell, there wouldn’t be any speeding cars whizzing by their play area.
From this stop, we traveled on the back country roads to visit with Greg’s aunt, who lives in a little town in northern Alabama. She was quite the host, with the seven of us invading her home. She was one of nine children living during the Depression, though, and they managed with one bathroom. This was nothing to her, I suppose, since we had three bathrooms at her house. This is the best part about not being in a hotel room, besides the lovely conversation from our hosts.
Greg, I, and the two smallest children left the next day at sunup to visit about 12 properties in the area. While there were several nice places, none were a good fit for one reason or another. The day left us exhausted—traipsing through woods, off-roading bumpy acreage, and eating bites of a sandwich in between stops. Yet, we weren’t discouraged, as years of research finally paid off. We’d found a nice place, and nobody knew enough about it to drive the prices up sky-high.
I’ve mentioned our reasons for relocating several times—the largest reason being economic. It’s difficult to write plainly on the matter, as I must remember this is the internet. But let me tell you the four criteria that we were looking for: significantly cheaper cost of living, a conservative reformed church nearby, a major city within an hour, and a climate/community hospitable to growing food.
It doesn’t seem that these four things would be difficult to find in one spot, but it is. There was always at least one factor missing, usually the “reformed church” one. Here in southern Tennessee, we found the cost of living to be about 70% of our current location; an ARP church; Huntsville and Nashville within an hour either way; and an organic community of farmers. While it wasn’t a stipulation, we found several other appealing factors in this area: a hospital and major shopping a five-minute drive away; a thriving, organic Old-Order Amish community; mild winters; mountains; family and another blogger-you’d-love-to-meet (and I did) living nearby.
Well, that’s enough writing for now. We have a few leads we’re following up on (some people who know this guy who heard about something that might be coming up for sale…), and I’ll write again on the subject when I actually have something to say.
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Nice. I’m the first commenter.
Thanks for sharing your trip and knowledge, Amy.
Comment by Andrea (June 18, 2007 @ 11:13 am )
Sounds like the side-trip to Tennessee paid off (at least in giving you a better idea about the area). Thank you for sharing your trip stories and the insight you have on your land search and move.
Comment by Jana (sidetrack'd) (June 18, 2007 @ 11:31 am )
I’m curious — how do you go about finding these leads to follow up on? My husband and I just recently started discussing seriously the possibility of moving to a more rural area — we’re probably looking at a time frame of 10 years from now or so — but it’s opened up a whole world of questions for me. We’ve bought a house before, but that was with a real estate agent, which it doesn’t sound like you’re using for this search.
Thanks!
Newt
Comment by Newt (June 18, 2007 @ 11:47 am )
Newt,
Ethan just asked the same question in another thread. Lord willing when I get another minute, I will write out the process that I went through and what I learned.
Comment by Amy Scott (June 18, 2007 @ 11:56 am )
From my rather limited detective skills, it sounds like you’re describing the land about 30 minutes from where I live. It is indeed a pretty neat place :o)
Comment by Christian (June 18, 2007 @ 12:20 pm )
Amy! It sounds wonderful! How exciting!
Comment by Holly (June 18, 2007 @ 12:20 pm )
Yippee!! You’ll be closer to us here in central Alabama!! And, your chosen area sounds simply wonderful!! I look forward to hearing more…
Comment by Lady Why (June 18, 2007 @ 12:36 pm )
The time estimate was for their driving–your family is not familiar with the road so slowed down on curves and such. The same thing happened when we moved to a rural area. Once you have driven the road about 50-100 times your driving time goes down to the official estimate. The possible new home sounds lovely. If I may ask, are you concerned with TN home-school laws and what does APR stand for?
Comment by Stephanie (June 18, 2007 @ 12:42 pm )
ARP stands for Associate Reformed Presbyterian.
We’re not concerned about the homeschool laws. We find FL homeschool laws easy enough to abide by, and TN is very similar.
Comment by Amy Scott (June 18, 2007 @ 12:57 pm )
Hey,
I got the chills by reading this post. My husband and I have been looking to move for similar reasons as you and your family (I homeschool as well). We have been thinking about Tennessee for a long time now. Yesterday, I was looking at real estate in the area you are talking about. I have always wanted to live near an Amish community (I did when I was a teen but was too ignorant to appreciate it). I was pleasantly surprised to find out, through your blog, that there is an Old Order community nearby! My husband just needs to find a job in the area. If it is right, God will provide! God Bless.
Comment by Jenn (June 18, 2007 @ 1:56 pm )
No barfing children on this leg of the journey? Bor-ing!
Comment by Jo (June 19, 2007 @ 12:09 am )
It sounds beautiful Amy! You must be talking about Lawrence County. Last year our family was considering a move to Williamson County. It didn’t come through for us but I wish it had. I did tons of research preparing for our possible move and TN sounded like a little slice of heaven on earth to this Philly girl! The homeschooling laws are awesome.
Comment by Kerrie (June 19, 2007 @ 6:05 am )
Amy,
I’ve been reading your blog for a while now but have never posted. I think I found your blog off of Buried Treasure Books.
When you rest up after your trip, I’m wondering if you’d share how you go about researching different areas. My husband and I are trying to plan for a move in the next year or so but, maybe I’m not searching correctly, but it seems difficult to find what we’re looking for. We are currently in the Northeast (not exactly conservative) and we’re looking for rural land that’s affordable, a Reformed church (we’ve been part of an OPC but have not heard of the ARP) and a warmer climate. If you’d be willng to share any pointers on how to do the research, I’d greatly appreciate it.
I’m glad you enjoyed your trip.
Comment by Karen J (June 19, 2007 @ 8:30 am )
Karen,
I will try to get that info up later today.
Comment by Amy Scott (June 19, 2007 @ 8:57 am )
I hope that once you make the nove,the are doesn’t decide to build up.many citie up there started out rural and then in the past 15 years are no longer.Madison,Alabama right next to Huntsville is an example.
Comment by Tammy (June 19, 2007 @ 10:17 am )
Amy, if you move to the place you’ve described, you’ll be about an hour away from where I live (if I read between the lines correctly). I’m a lurker who loves to read about your life with children. Thanks and best wishes on the decision and the move!
Comment by Amy (June 19, 2007 @ 3:44 pm )
This is all so exciting to read! It sounds like you are getting closer to our family all the time
We’re in Middle-of-Nowhere, Alabama (aka The Center of the Universe) and landed here pretty much by “chance.” In other words, it’s exactly where the Lord wanted us. We just knew that being a one-income family wasn’t possible in Western Washington so we headed east and south. We knew if we found somewhere that we could live on one income, preferably on a little piece of land, the Lord would put the rest of it into place. We’ve been here 5 years next month and couldn’t be happier.
I pray everything works out for y’all. It sounds like you’re looking to live right about the place where we’re planning to deliver our 4th baby next month. How cool!
Blessings,
Lindsey in AL
Comment by Lindsey in AL (June 19, 2007 @ 4:40 pm )
*smiles at Lindsey* We are in western Washington right now, expecting our first in August and wanting to get to Texas — partly for family reasons and partly for living on single income reasons (we can do it here, barely, with my job, but not with what my husband can make and we want me to be the one home with the kids still).
Amy: Are you anywhere near Crossville? I have very fond memories of stopping in Crossville, TN to see my grandparents every summer. they had a little farm, put up their produce, etc. Grandma even pickled her cucumbers!
Comment by My Boaz's Ruth (June 20, 2007 @ 9:43 am )
No, we’ve been looking in south central TN.
Comment by Amy Scott (June 21, 2007 @ 9:45 am )
God led us to rural Cheatham county, TN 2 1/2 years ago (from rapidly overcrowding and expensive Williamson county) and we couldn’t be happier here. We “interviewed” the church around the corner from us before purchasing because that was important to us also. The circumstances of moving here had God’s fingerprints all over them and we have been continually blessed by opportunities to serve Him and by the spiritual growth and friendship we’ve found in our church. I hope you find the same. We write about our (mis)adventures on the farm on our blog.
Blessings,
Laura
Comment by Laura (June 22, 2007 @ 10:06 am )
Perhaps it is because I have only had one child, but I was amazed after reading all your travel posts that you only mentioned that you’re expecting in passing at the beginning! Since I played the “I’m pregnant” card for the full 9 months (sometimes in jest, other times not), I hope next time around my family will benefit from me reading your example. And you thought you were just posting about your trip!
Comment by Mrs. Zahller (June 25, 2007 @ 3:23 pm )
my goodness Amy, sounds like you have been in my backyard! we live right on the Maury County/Giles County line, right where it joins Lawrence County, we bought a 150 yr old farm house with some acreage for our herd of children and herd of horses, anyway, I help folks find properties often as kind of a hobby, (I am not an agent) if I can be of any help, let me know!
blessings, Penny
penny@awesomeglory.com
Comment by Penny Raine (July 3, 2007 @ 11:21 am )
Amy, I am late in reading this, but was thrilled to see you were/are considering our ‘back yard!’ We live in town, but in southern-middle TN. I followed the link to “a blogger you would like to meet” and find that we go to the same church! It is a PCA church-and has family-friendly worship. I know you are interested in that.
Come on up to TN!
wendy
Comment by wendy (July 7, 2007 @ 5:35 pm )
Hi Amy. I just stumbled upon this page while doing a Google search for homeschool in North Carolina or Tennessee. I have young children and my family is seriously considering a move within the next year. We live in SE Louisiana about 30 miles north of New Orleans. Hurricane Katrina did a lot of damage in our city. My dh is very concerned about the slow pace of recovery and the economic future of the city.
I cannot believe that I found your page. I don’t know anything about homeschool laws in NC or TN so I thought I would start there — to figure out which state would be better/easier for homeschooling families. Then I have no idea how to find a place to live!!! We know that we would like eastern TN or western NC but that’s all. We want at least 10 acres of land and we have to be within an hour of a major city — my dh works in a hospital.
I am going to read some more on your blog. Good luck on your search.
Comment by Paula (August 5, 2007 @ 10:12 am )