Rejected
Thursday, Jul 12, 2007
We made what we thought was a very reasonable offer on a 67-acre piece in Tennessee yesterday, but our offer was rejected. The owner wouldn’t budge, and we couldn’t afford a larger offer. This puts us back at square one, pretty much.
The seller’s rejection of our offer seems to be influenced by the local rumor mill. (This is my speculation based on the story I will tell you.) Several weeks back, Greg and I were speaking with an elderly gentleman about his 100-acre place for sale. We toured the property and agreed that it was the nicest place we’d seen so far. The owner told us that his asking price was fantastic, since a farm down the road sold for $1000 more per acre. Yet, it still seemed pretty high to us.
Afterward, a local real estate agent related a story about a man who came in from California and bought the infamous place down-the-way right on the spot. “No offense,” he told us, “But you people coming in from California and Florida had a recent housing boom. It’s driving things up.” Just as an unfortunate aside for us, it seems the bubble has burst in our area.
Anyway, I believe I found the piece for the price mentioned, but it has a 3 bedroom house on it. (?) Other factors drive up the price of vacant land, such as: creeks, springs, riverfront, vicinity to town, timber to pasture ratio, and general fertility of the land.
Fast forward to yesterday. When Greg made our offer, which was in line with what has sold in the area in the past six months with other comparable pieces, the owner mentioned the story about “that one piece down the way.” It seems everyone knows about that place, and word is getting around. He isn’t in a rush, in any case.
Elisabeth Elliot writes, “I had been praying for something I wanted very badly. It seemed a good thing to have, a thing that would make life even more pleasant than it is, and would not in any way hinder my work. God did not give it to me. Why? I do not know all of his reasons, of course. The God who orchestrates the universe has a good many things to consider that have not occurred to me, and it is well that I leave them to Him. But one thing I do understand: He offers me holiness at the price of relinquishing my own will.”
We trust in providence, and so our disappointment is tempered. It’s just another leg in the journey, which ironically, may be leading to nowhere. (I had to say it.) We delight in Him, and not in a place—at least, not in a place that is here– and so I really mean it when I say that it’s all OK. We’ll wait, watch, and know that He is still working right where we’re at.
That’s all for now. Besides a rabid raccoon in our neighborhood that attacked a man and lots of thundershowers, it’s pretty quiet around here.
Trust in the LORD, and do good;
dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness.
Delight yourself in the LORD,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Commit your way to the LORD;
trust in him, and he will act.
He will bring forth your righteousness as the light,
and your justice as the noonday.
Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him;
Psalm 37:3 - 7a
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Amy, great thoughts as usual.
LOL at the rabid racoon…though not for the guy. (hope he’s ok!)
Comment by Andrea (July 12, 2007 @ 3:15 pm )
We are currently going through something similar, a place where we walk by faith and wait on the Lord’s pleasing and perfect will. Thank you for sharing these thoughts.
And I hope the rabid raccoon was captured!
Comment by Jana (sidetrack'd) (July 12, 2007 @ 4:30 pm )
Don’t be discouraged. We just went through that half a year ago. We put in several offers, all rejected. One accepted but we had to sell our house in 2 weeks (and it wasn’t on the market until the day they accepted)… so we tried hard - our real estate agent jumped hoops for us that she normally never would do and on that last day our agent and the the other agent selling the place we were interested in tried to work a deal but it seemed the man selling was just being plain old grumpy and stubborn. Well, we were disappointed but 2 weeks later what do you know?!?! A farm came for sale privately for a better deal than the first place and we got an offer on our house that we accepted! What a turn of events… but it took us waiting and trusting the Lord. He knows best… and it will show itself in time. Keep looking up!
Comment by Jennifer (July 12, 2007 @ 4:43 pm )
Sorry -
Prayers continue for y’all!
Comment by Laura in KY (July 12, 2007 @ 4:44 pm )
I am such a huge dreamer, and it can take me many hours, if not days or weeks, to “recover” from such disappointments. Inwardly I am smiling God’s goodness and his providence, but it has a hard time making it out on to my face through the overhanging cloud. The older I get the more I realize that my family needs my joy in these times; we know that mommy is truly the cheerleader in many ways. I pray that your joy and contentment (1 Tim. 6:6) will be evident and in no way lacking in coming days as you feel like you’re started all over again and continue in the routines of family life. Thanks for encouraging me, too, through recounting this!
Comment by Kristi (July 12, 2007 @ 5:05 pm )
One of thew most interesting things I have found about living in the South. It seeems to me that southerners feel they are doing you a great favor by selling you anything, even if they are asking twice what it is worth. Funny huh?
Comment by Penny Raine (July 12, 2007 @ 5:44 pm )
I, like you, don’t know where your journey is leading, but you display great faith in the providence of God and are a wonderful example of how to accept whatever God’s plans may be. God bless you and your family.
Comment by terry (July 12, 2007 @ 6:54 pm )
Hello Amy,
My heart goes out to you. It is so disappointing to lose something you put so much heart into. But God is faithful.
I’ve know this for many years, but at this time last year it didn’t seem like He would ever come through;our dream home was sold to another. Thankfully God’s faithfulness does not rest upon my faith. He provided us with a much nicer home, more property, better location at a much less price.
If our Lord closes a door it is because He has something much better behind another one.
Blessings,
Trixie
Comment by Trixie (July 12, 2007 @ 7:14 pm )
Awww…rejection stinks.
Comment by Elizabeth (July 12, 2007 @ 8:10 pm )
I don’t know if the rabid raccoon was captured. It’s been a few days, and so we’re finally going about as normal again. (I made the kids and the dog stay in while it was on the loose.) I don’t know the man that got attacked, and our neighbors drive their cars into their garages, so it is hard to know…
I found out about the raccoon attack because the cops pulled into our church (at the end of our street) one night during choir practice to inquire if anyone had seen the raccoon. A woman who was at practice said that she was at my house earlier that day when we saw it, so she called me and told me why they were looking for the raccoon (because it had bitten the man just a few hours earlier).
Well, the next day, I was chatting with the guy that mows the yard across the street and warned him about the raccoon. Apparently he works as a volunteer for the fire department and was there when the call came in that “a guy got attacked by wolves.” (?!?!?) He doesn’t know the end of the story either.
I’m not sure why I just typed all that, but there’s the story for ya.
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Thank you to ya’ll who shared stories of God’s providence. I always enjoy those kinds of conversations; it’s neat to talk about.
Comment by Amy Scott (July 12, 2007 @ 9:37 pm )
I found you recently through a friend. Thanks for the encouragement to remember God has a plan.
Comment by Stephanie (July 12, 2007 @ 10:23 pm )
Buying a home is such an emotional purchase. When we moved to our home seven years ago we took six months from the first time we saw it until we made the offer. We did a lot of praying and knew if the house was still there when we were ready then it would work out. God’s planning may not match the realestate market…but it is always better.
Comment by Kathy/ Lessons from the Laundry (July 12, 2007 @ 10:32 pm )
Your perspective of the situation is just right but I do echo Trixie’s thoughts — my heart goes out to you. We have a compassionate God who knows we feel pain even while trusting Him (sorry; I’m not too profound) and I know He’s going to honor you both for that trust and peaceful, uncomplaining spirit.
Love,
Ruthanne
Comment by Ruthanne (July 12, 2007 @ 11:07 pm )
We stopped looking for a home a few months ago. We needed to step back and recover from many rejections. I was thinking about God’s Providence this morning on my way to work, so it was nice to read how you(Amy and the commenters) are trusting in the Lord.
Comment by lisaIngram (July 13, 2007 @ 9:47 am )
Good advice for any situation.I have been praying for a year that my husband get a job locally so he would not have to travel for his job.Right now he has been working in California doing consulting work.When he gets local interviews he has been so excited thinking that this is the job-NOPE!!Rejection comes in many ways.
Comment by Tammy (July 13, 2007 @ 10:44 am )
I’m bummed for you. Just to make an offer, as deliberative as I think you Scotts to be, was a big deal. To have it rejected so quickly has to be disappointing in a deep way.
The thing about raw land in the country is that it’s price is almost always fueled by the rumor mill. In the urban areas, it’s so easy to get comps on recently sold property that it takes the guess work out of it. With land, since it’s financed differently, the sellers are more cautious, particularly when it’s an elderly owner, or someone who has owned the land for a long time.
It’s not that it’s a Southern thing, as one commenter put it. I seriously doubt anyone is trying to take advantage. But sellers don’t want to be rubes, either. And if there’s no hurry to sell a property, then there’s time to sit around and wait for another offer to roll in.
I’m sure you are already praying for the family from which you will eventually purchase your dream property. God has been in the real estate miracle business since the beginning! Sorry to be so long but I’m encouraged with your story and know that others are, too.
Comment by MrsBurns (July 13, 2007 @ 10:46 am )
I sort of hesitate to make this suggestion but have ya’ll looked at the real estate listings on e-bay?
for instance (and I don’t know where in Tenn. ya’ll are lookin’ for land so this is just an example)
http://cgi.ebay.com/Tennessee-Land-100-Acres-Henderson-County-Wooded_W0QQitemZ260132056430QQihZ016QQcategoryZ15841QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
but maybe ya’ll want already cleared land…or that might not even be a good price
just tossin’ that out there for “just in case”
p.s. I’m not the seller nor do I know the seller…
Comment by Mrs G (July 13, 2007 @ 11:12 am )
I’ve loved reading here today. Thank you for your work. Your heading is fantastic.
Comment by Shirley Buxton (July 13, 2007 @ 12:37 pm )
Oh, so sorry for the disappointment.
You know, of course, that this simply means God has something better in mind for you.
Isnt it great to be able to trust him!?
Comment by Margaret (July 13, 2007 @ 1:16 pm )
Amy we are currently going thru something very similar (except its 8 acres, not 60 plus!)…what I’m finding out is that LAND no matter WHERE it is, seems to be ridiculously OVERPRICED. The housing boom and bubble burst don’t seem to matter too much on location. Land is no longer cheap.
Personally I have my own opinions as to why. Farming has pretty much dried up in the good ole’ USA and old farmers are dying (literally). They are leaving the family farm, passed down for generations to a bunch of ungrateful, uninterested shmucks who would rather sell it and make BIG BUCKS (housing development anyone?) than continue to farm.
It is a trickle down effect that has taken us MANY YEARS to get to. We’ve devalued family life, farm life, and now we prize big suburban communities and fancy McMansion homes. So, yes…real estate, especially LAND is expensive.
But of course, it is just my opinion.
Comment by Lindsey (July 13, 2007 @ 3:41 pm )
Amy,
Would you please share where the quote from Elisabeth Elliot came from?- and if you need anything in the middle TN area- please let me know. We would be glad to help you.
Comment by Sherry in TN (July 13, 2007 @ 4:34 pm )
Sherry, Thank you for the offer; you are kind! Greg was just in the Centerville area. Is that close to you?
Regarding the quote, I pulled it from the daily email devotional I receive. Most of the devotions are from her book, A Lamp Unto My Feet, but don’t hold me on that.
Tammy, I understand your frustration. We began thinking along these lines several years ago when Greg was always traveling and working long hours. I pray God sends a solution soon.
Comment by Amy Scott (July 13, 2007 @ 9:10 pm )
Hey Amy ; ) I just posted some of what you shared on my blog….it was an encouragement to me…as we are in the midst of HAVING to move (we rent, and the owner is moving back in!!). Thanks for sharing - the Lord used it for my encouragements today : )
Comment by shawnda (July 14, 2007 @ 4:34 pm )
Amy, What an awesome statement of faith you have posted about the struggles with finding your land. I stand (really sit at the computer) in awe of your faithfulness to an awesome God! Thank you for showing that faithfulness to us!
Comment by Emily Jones (July 15, 2007 @ 6:46 pm )
Amy-
Sorry to hear of your disappointment. I have been thinking of you and thought I’d check back in to see if there was any news. Your post is so applicable for many situations and it is inspiring.
One thing that has helped me is a little saying, sometimes I feel like it is God’s voice talking because I made it up. At times when I question, I realize I already know the answer,
“Because God didn’t want me there, he is preparing something better.”
So many times in life when you look back you can understand, and you feel so blessed and thankful. Yet during the depths of trials and disappointments it is tough. Hang in there and keep trying, all of us out here are praying for you!
Comment by Stefanie (July 18, 2007 @ 5:30 pm )
Thank you Amy for sharing. You have helped me in many ways. I will be praying for your family. God Bless.
Comment by Sifted Heart (July 21, 2007 @ 9:46 pm )
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