Learning from one another
Thursday, Aug 2, 2007
I get all my good stories from my husband. So, Greg told me about a discussion he participated in this week with other local realtors about matters of the economy. An elderly gentleman offered his observations on the state of our local housing market. The discussion goes on well until a young, upstart realtor corrects something—which could be considered a matter of opinion—the elderly gentleman said. Armed with a little bit of (book) knowledge, the young man took aim and fired.
Greg tells me that it was quite uncomfortable and embarrassing having to listen to the critique. Finally, someone with nerve spoke up and asked, “Do you know who you just criticized?” The elderly man whom the young man was blasting happened to be the wealthiest, most successful multi-million dollar property owner in the county.
Greg tells me this phenomenon happened all the time while he was a student in seminary. Some young kid would read a book, arm himself with a little theological know-how, and then proceed to argue a point with the professor while everyone sat there and waited. Situations like these are always uncomfortable, not because the teacher is never wrong, but because some students don’t understand the value of humility, building relationships, and community in the context of learning.
And these are my comments in regards to the profitable discussion on the post below. I think that is what the verse, “Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man,” means as one commenter pointed out. (Colossians 4:6) The person who gets knowledge should also arm himself with wisdom and understanding. Knowledge is like having a tool, but wisdom is knowing how and when to use it.
Reading Wendell Berry this week reminded me of all this. I don’t understand half of what he says, but I’m smart enough to know that I should make an effort to try. I disagreed with him on some certain matter, but I kept reading anyway as I figured it was worth my time.
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This reminds me that I never commented on that post, although when I read it I thought a hearty “Amen!”
Otherwise I’ll just say that you can lead a fool to knowledge but you can’t make him think.
Amen–to that post and this one.
Comment by Jeana (August 2, 2007 @ 5:17 pm )
We call these people “thunder puppies”.
Comment by Nicole (August 2, 2007 @ 9:11 pm )
Amen.
I feel like you can always learn something from someone, even if you disagree with something about them or even something they say. It’s called….humility.
Comment by Andrea (August 2, 2007 @ 9:27 pm )
You know, salt could do some damage to a constantly-open mouth. Can you imagine the swollen tastebuds? Geesh, if we could only be exposed to ideas with which we agreed, we’d only be able to talk to ourselves. Although, I think even that would be difficult for me! And how would a marriage ever work?
I remember in the days of my youth (I’m feeling kind of aged today at 32) that I felt threatened when I didn’t know something. Now I just assume that I don’t know much and life is MUCH better!
Comment by April (August 2, 2007 @ 11:21 pm )
I bet you’ve probably read this articleregarding “principles vs. methods” by Nancy Wilson.
It is one that (thank God!) steered me in the proper direction several years ago as I was preparing for my first baby.
I feel like I don’t “fit in” to many circles with other moms sometimes, but I don’t like getting into arguments in which methodsare mistaken for princiiples.
Comment by Kristi (August 3, 2007 @ 1:37 am )
I meant to put this comment after your previous post and without all the horrible typos, too. Woops!
Comment by Kristi (August 3, 2007 @ 1:39 am )
I saw just this same phenomenon a couple of weeks ago at a church dinner. The young man visiting who is going to a “Bible college” decided to take on one of the elders in our church regarding several of the Presbyterian doctrines. It WAS painful to watch, especially as the young men in the church gathered around to see what would happen. Eventually the elder had to say, “this discussion is really not profitable we should end it.” because the young man had no sense of logic and was just like a little pit bull-grabbing on to anything he could!
The same thing occured to me, this young man, with the proper respect and regard for relationships could have learned so much!
Comment by Margaret in VA (August 3, 2007 @ 8:09 am )
Your entry made me stop and think about where my children might be picking up this obnoxious habit. Yep! I’m totally guilty.
Comment by Karen (August 3, 2007 @ 12:06 pm )
love your writing.
love, love, love Wendell Berry’s writing too.
yeah–i don’t quite get it all either–probably due to sleep deprivation and not having enough time for reading and deep thinking!
Hope I didn’t say anything to make you feel bad for me like the young man you spoke of.
Comment by Amy (August 4, 2007 @ 10:57 am )