Day one
Tuesday, Sep 4, 2007
We were on the road before 6 a.m. early Wednesday morning last week. Our trailer was packed to the brim with the first of many loads we were taking to our new place. The closing was scheduled for Thursday, so we had plenty of time to get there. We estimated it being a 14 – 15 hour trip, with an extra hour because of the heavy load we were carrying. Our plan was to drive up to Chattanooga and rest there the first night. This is normally a 10 hour drive for us.
We were only on the interstate for an hour when the first trailer tire blew out. It seemed quite early for trouble to start, but I was glad to be stranded while it was still cool outside. Thankfully, the tire was on the right-hand side, so Greg was in somewhat of a better position to be changing a tire while cars and 18-wheelers flew by at 70 – 80 mph. The jack was a bit dinky, so it took a half hour to change the tire. My job was to keep law and order in the van: “Do NOT unbuckle your seatbelts.”
My oldest son decided to ponder the sovereignty of God in the situation and suggested, “Maybe God doesn’t want us to move.” I told him that these things happen and that we shouldn’t look for a sign under every rock.
After we got back on the road, Greg and I decided that we ought to get another spare tire just in case. He’d drop me and the children off in a few hours for lunch while he bought another spare tire.
It wasn’t too long after devising our plan (but before implementing it) that the second trailer tire blew out. This time it was on the left side, and this time we didn’t have another spare yet. This is where the story gets long, complicated, and sticky.
We left the trailer and traveled 3 miles onto the next exit. The best chance for tires was about 15 – 18 miles back the other way we were told, so we turned back to hit the Wal-Mart Supercenter. It turns out that this Wal-Mart didn’t have tires, but a nearby heavily iron-barred pawn shop advertising “EZ loans” did. This was the kind of place that sells automotive bling, and I just knew this was going to turn into some Chevy Chase scene.
Apparently, our recently purchased trailer had been outfitted with car tires and not trailer tires, so Greg was scalped for three new tires (two for the trailer, one as a spare). We were spared in an act of sovereign graciousness souped-up tires; “Man, you want plain white-wall tires?!” When we returned to our abandoned trailer and Greg began working on it on the more dangerous left side, we discovered that the 5 bolt—whatever inch tires didn’t have the bolts in the same place. So it was forward 3 miles and back another 15 to the pawn shop.
By now, the children are beginning to fall apart, and my toddler decides to lick the floor inside the shop that hasn’t seen a mop for at least 50 years. He never licks the floor—except for today. A few hours go by and my oldest son ponders the sovereignty of God in the situation again, “Maybe God doesn’t want us to move.”
I agreed this time.
By now, it had been EIGHT HOURS and we were only two hours away from home. I suggested going on and leaving the trailer since there were only odds and ends on it anyway. I suggested turning around and crawling back under the covers at home.
What we did instead was press on. I entertained the kids with “Mother-May-I?” in the pawn shop parking lot and hiked with my crew to a carpet store to use the restrooms.
After we sorted out the tire situation and cleaned out the roaches we’d acquired at the stop, we were back on the road. We made it to Chattanooga after 17+ hours. It was midnight and everyone was miserable. I’m 30+ weeks pregnant; I’m not sure what everyone else’s excuse was.
The next morning Greg opened his Bible (not to whack a misbehaving kid with it) and read words that were an admonishment for our attitudes the day before and prophetic for the days to come, “Rejoice in the Lord always, and again I say, ‘Rejoice.’”
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Well, if MY husband had opened his Bible and read: “Rejoice in the Lord always,” I would have whacked HIM with it before he could read, “and again I say, ‘Rejoice.’”
I’m just saying. A double foam vanilla latte would have gotten me rejoicing a lot quicker.
Are you still on your coffee fast? Sounds like the perfect time to fall off the wagon….er…trailer.
Comment by Elizabeth (September 4, 2007 @ 2:31 pm )
Thanks for sharing the beginning of your trip. I look forward to hearing more of God’s timely blessings in your lives.
Comment by Pam (September 4, 2007 @ 2:46 pm )
Yes, Elizabeth! I’ve fallen!
Comment by Amy Scott (September 4, 2007 @ 2:53 pm )
Ugh! What a story. So sorry to hear about your troubles!
I’m right with you on the 30+ weeks pregnant and my adventures this weekend included painting our kitchen and trying to intensely potty train our 2 year-old. Definitely a weekend of labor.
It’s good to have the reminder to “rejoice” isn’t it?
Comment by Julie (September 4, 2007 @ 3:08 pm )
“Scalped.” I love it. Also love the floor licking. Today seemed like a rough day until I read about yours…
Thanks for the perspective!
Comment by Carole (September 4, 2007 @ 3:22 pm )
This would have had me going crazy…and I’m not pregnant! One good thing out of it…made for good blogging. I pray that future trips go a lot smoother!
Comment by Thia (September 4, 2007 @ 3:57 pm )
LOL! I agree with Elizabeth, ironic, not prophetic, would have been the word I thought of when that verse came up.
And that is exactly why I read your blog Amy!
You always make me laugh but even better, you always make me resolve to be better. Here’s praying you make it through the tough parts quickly so you can get to enjoying the better things.
Comment by Kerrie (September 4, 2007 @ 4:31 pm )
Amy,
This reminds me of the last road trip we took over two years ago. The reason it’s been two years since a trip, you ask?
Let’s just say it took us ten hours to make a five hour trip (from central California to San Diego) by virtue of the fact that our three children (we’ve added one since), ages four and under, were simultaneously throwing up. It’s not an exaggeration to say that we stopped at every other freeway exit for clean up.
Fun is not a big enough word.
Now whenever we entertain the idea of a trip, our kids enthusiastically chime in with, “yeah, and we can bring our buckets!” (remembering the fact that their sandpails were commandeered for purposes other than play).
This snaps us right back to reality.
No trips for us until the kids are in their thirties–at least!
Comment by emily (September 4, 2007 @ 4:40 pm )
If my 2 year old was with you she would have been licking everything! Including that floor.
Comment by Kristina (September 4, 2007 @ 4:49 pm )
Oh, Amy! You are an amazing woman. Praise the Lord you had such a rough go of it? I’ll leave that up to you, but it is wonderful that God has given you a husband who will help you persevere, and that your attitude is such that you can write to tell us all about it. It really sounds like a terrible day, but, without a doubt, it will be one of your family’s fondest memories.
Comment by Leslie (September 4, 2007 @ 4:50 pm )
I know it was a rough first day, but you have to admit — when things start looking like a scene from Clark Griswald’s life, it makes for great blog fodder.
I’ll pray things go better for you on your new journey, but more specifically that God doesn’t give you another child with a floor licking affinity!
Comment by Michelle (September 4, 2007 @ 5:05 pm )
Amy, I can’t wait to hear about the rest of your trip. At least you’re blessed with a husband who can do things like change tires … Some gals aren’t so lucky!
Mine have all done the floor-licking thing …
Comment by Brea (September 4, 2007 @ 6:42 pm )
I loved the story, Amy. Whether you have ten kids (like me) or one, mothers have a million of those kinds of stories. Here’s one that I have in my arsenal.
Several years ago, we were traveling back from Tahoe and it began to snow. Because we live in the Bay Area where it rarely, if ever, snows, we don’t own any chains and we’re not exactly snow savvy. However, we had gone to Tahoe with friends who had left early (how convenient!) and they left us some rusty chains. (My husband is from Pittsburgh, PA, but many years of CA living has completely eradicated any snow sense from his thinking.) As it began to snow harder and with increasing speed, we came upon a booth that Cal Trans had set up in the middle of the road. Cars with four wheel drives or chains were the only ones being allowed to continue. We had a mini van which had neither one of those features. While we were waiting in a line of cars, my husband got out and began to attempt putting the chains on. The poor dear was on the ground, completely soaked and the rusty chains were stubbornly refusing to go on the tires. I guess that’s because they were the wrong size. I prayed with the kids while Gene was on the ground getting completely filthy and wet (while we were in the car with the heat on, of course) and asked God to get us through. “Open it up like the Red Sea, Lord,” was pretty close to my exact wording. After Gene got back in the car, we decided to continue to the booth and tell the guys that we would go back and buy chains at a store. We again prayed as we neared the booth. All of a sudden, and I’m not kidding, the man waved us through! It was such a tangible answer to prayer and something about which I have never forgotten. In fact, I journaled it. I’m sure they thought we had a four wheel drive and we didn’t dispute it. Besides, the snow let up quickly and we were out of the mountains shortly thereafter. When I told my friends about it, one of them told me about the verse in Proverbs 31(I’ve read it a million times–ok, so that’s hyperbole–but never noticed verse 21: “She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.”
I had no idea that I was being a Proverbs 31 woman that day (once again, my tongue is firmly planted in cheek)! God did come through for us–again–and it’s marvelous to reflect on those kinds of past experiences that speak to God’s provision.
Cathy
Comment by Cathy (September 4, 2007 @ 7:59 pm )
Um.
I know I shouldn’t keep saying that your journey sounds oddly like ours….
But it does.
Sob! Weep! Gnashing of teeth!
We didn’t blow tires, but our ancient (loaned) tarp kept shifting and pulling and tearing and we kept stopping and readjusting. At one point we were losing mittens out of a Rubbermaid tote and some man stopped us to tell us. I could have cared less about the mittens.
By the time we drove into the big city to sign the papers, the tarp was in tatters and we looked like the Beverly Hillbillies.
I confess that I cried the first week here….because of SO much work needing to be done, and being so tired, kids all out of sorts…and being seven months pregnant. We’re tough old coots and I don’t usually cry - but I did.
It’s all much better now. Hang in there!
Comment by Holly (September 4, 2007 @ 9:30 pm )
Ah, these are the stories that eventually make great family lore… after a decade or two, when they’ve acquired the soft, fuzzy edges of time, that is. I hope that day 2 was smoother!
Comment by marian (September 4, 2007 @ 10:59 pm )
Our attitude is sometimes that when it is extremely hard to do something that is pleasing to God, like drive to Holy Mass (an hour and a half sometimes), the devil will do whatever he can to stop us. The best thing to do is pray, “Lord, may Thy Holy Will be done.” and of course several Hail Marys! Job’s prayer never hurts, either: “The Lord giveth, and the Lord taketh away. Blessed be the Name of the Lord.”
We just completed a move to another city so that we could have weekly Holy Mass and raise our children in the state I grew up in. Deo Gratias that it is over and I can focus on finding a midwife now for our first son’s birth.
God bless you, Amy! Keep up the good work. I love the picture on the top of your blog.
Comment by Corinne (September 5, 2007 @ 1:45 am )
I had such fun reading your post I actually thought about the sovereignty of God as well….. ‘Maybe all of this happened just so Mommy could write about it and give the rest of us a good laugh and smile.’ This one is a keeper for those strange days when life does NOT make sense.
Thanx!
Comment by Eunice (September 5, 2007 @ 9:32 am )
Sounds like an incredibly long day! We once took what we thought would be a 2 hour trip… it turned into 11 hours. I’ll just hit the highlights for you… a broken down Suburban, 90+ degree temps, a bar, a stranger who drove over an hour to pick us up, & a rental car that blew a tire on the interstate.
Look for God’s blessings even on the difficult days. He is all around you!
Comment by Geneva (September 5, 2007 @ 9:36 am )
oh Amy, so sorry to laugh but you have such a great a sense of humor. I think you could write the biblically correct version of “Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day”classic kids book.
Many Blessings!
Comment by Suzi (September 5, 2007 @ 12:35 pm )
well!!! now there’s a day for ya!
Comment by flipflop (September 5, 2007 @ 12:51 pm )
On a happy note, I can’t wait to see pictures of your new house. We have some friends who just bought an Amish farm near us in Western NY and they are so blessed! When I saw it, I cried. God gave them the desire of their heart in this home. The floor plan of an Amish home is SO practical for a homemaking mom. If I were to build a home, I would definitely use this as a model. Happened on your blog a few weeks ago and love it. Great encouragement as we travel this road called life together as sisters in Christ.
Comment by AmyT (September 5, 2007 @ 4:19 pm )
This story made my day. People in my house came to see why I was laughing so much. Thank you for sharing.
Love
Amanda
Comment by Amanda (September 5, 2007 @ 4:26 pm )
Boy, between your story and Laura’s over at “Patchwork…” I’m not sure I want to move! We still don’t know where the Lord’s sending us but we’ll hopefully move soon. But…now I’m not so sure I want to even attempt it!!
Can’t wait to hear more of your story!
Hugs,
Carmen
P.S. The licking the floor thing…eeeewwww! My (then) one year old decided to pick up a piece of dog doodoo at the grandparent’s house a few months ago and taste it(and they don’t have a dog!! Talk about nasty! I feel for ya!
Comment by Carmen (September 5, 2007 @ 9:57 pm )
Oh Amy and it was only day one!?
Glad to hear you did indeed get your house and land. I am envious though. Our day will come….some day, Lord willing. Contentment is our lot right now.
Blessings,
Theresa
Comment by Theresa Gould (September 5, 2007 @ 10:43 pm )
Oh, dear. What ‘fun’. My mother always said something totally inappropriate when things like this happened to our family. Something about building character. I say leave that for the actors…
However, if you get stuck around Huntsville, AL, holla…we’ll be happy to bail you out, or at least point out the cleanest public restrooms in town. I am getting acquainted with them fast now that we have a potty trained kid! Woo Hoo!!!
Comment by Aubrey (September 6, 2007 @ 9:42 am )
Aack! My stomach was practically knotting up as I read! I would have been an absolute crab. But *hooray*! Onward to your new home!
~Stacy
Comment by Stacy (September 6, 2007 @ 12:05 pm )
Well, I am glad that the Lord gave you a sense of humour.. and a blog site that you can write it all down on! God continue to bless you…
Comment by Ruth (September 8, 2007 @ 10:29 am )
Amy,
Please, Please, Please show us the inside of your house sometime.
Rita
Comment by rita (October 2, 2007 @ 5:02 pm )
Rita,
Right now, the house is completely empty except for walls. There is no paint, electricity, plumbing, nothing. We have not begun work on it yet. I’ll put up pictures once things get started.
We are still in our Florida home.
Comment by Amy Scott (October 2, 2007 @ 9:41 pm )