Everything’s broken
Tuesday, Oct 30, 2007
I grew up in the 80’s. We had a Beta recorder because my dad thought it was better than a VCR, and like most things, we were always caught a day late and a dollar short. Jelly shoes? Check. Michael Jackson’s Thriller memorized? Check. The only problem is that I had to wait for jelly shoes to come to our neighborhood Little General store before I could afford them with my car wash money. I was never cool enough for the mall. I wanted to fit in, to belong, to own stuff that wasn’t duct taped together, to get to Wally World before it closed for the season.
I’ve already likened my life to a TBS version of a Chevy Chase movie, so I’ll try to conjure a new reference. The problem with thinking up new stuff is that my brain is broken too, along with my very nine-month self. In case you missed it the one-teeny-time I mentioned it, I’m on my last leg.
If that wasn’t bad enough, my toddler broke my trendy –code for “expensive”– glasses this morning, so now I can’t see either. (I’m sure I probably don’t need to SEE for labor day, but it’s like a security blanket. I can’t do this without my glasses.) If that wasn’t bad enough, my seven-year-old tried to fix them before the dirty deed was exposed. The glasses were sitting on a Bible on the table, so you know, I figured they were in the safe zone. We need more candy and hazardous things to distract the little ones.
Now that I have enough money to be just a little bit cool, though, I don’t care. That feels good. I have an extra pair of glasses, but they are not cool. Like Rich Mullins wrote, “The stuff of earth competes for the allegiance I owe only to the Giver of all good things.” Moving on from the eighth grade lunchroom? That’s freedom.
16 Comments
RSS feed for comments on this post. TrackBack URI
Leave a comment
Look I did it again! I think I managed to be the first here…must be that I have something *really* important to say! HA!
Yes, with my #2 pregnancy, 4 million years ago, I broke my contacts and had to wear my highly untrendy, magnify my eyeballs, scratched and just plain ugly 6 year old glasses….
and I needed a hair cut.
I felt like a great big blimpy prego momma who clearly doesn’t own a mirror and certainly should not leave the house.
And people lie to you. They say “no one really pays attention to what you are wearing/how you do your hair etc.”
Oh yeah? So then why, after being delivered of my wee girl, and after my mommy paid for my new contacts, and after my darling husband found me some hair cut money did my pastor (who I adore) say to me “Hey, you look really beautiful today! What was with the glasses? Was that just a “I’m pregnant and tired” thing or what?”
nice.
And personally, I can’t do labour with out crackers and cheese….and toe nail polish
(we’re working on #7 now)
Comment by Barbara (October 30, 2007 @ 11:04 am )
I hear ya! I was always a day late and a dollar short, too. I still wait for things to get cheaper before I buy them. Techno gadgets, clothes, trends, etc. I think pregnancy just forces us to go into the comfy mode rather than the trendy mode (right now I’m in old sweats, hubby’s t-shirt and old button up cardigan…definitely comfy!)…but sometimes those toddlers force that concept on us!
Hope you can find some new “car wash money” soon! : )
Hugs,
Carmen
P.S. In case you didn’t catch my subtle hint check out my blog…5 or 6 posts down.
http://www.sixblessings.blogspot.com
Comment by Carmen (October 30, 2007 @ 11:57 am )
I loved leaving middle school behind… we were always [more than] a dollar short and a day late. Now that I’m an adult, I’m very frugal {cheap} and can’t imagine spending money on name-brand things. Thankfully, since we are homeschooling, I’m hoping my kids won’t be swept up in the whole “cool clothes” fiasco. Although the 6 year old wants those shoes with wheels on the heel, but I refuse not just because they are almost $100 (!!!!!) but because of the safety factor as well.
Now my biggest worry about clothes is that I’ll stain one of my clearance bargain tee-shirts ($4 at Target) and will need to replace clothes before something I like comes on clearance again. Why couldn’t I be this smart when I was a kid???
Comment by Laura (October 30, 2007 @ 12:09 pm )
Oh that made me cry. I miss Rich Mullins…and I love that song…Winds of Heaven, Stuff of Earth…I need to get that out and listen to it again. Thanks for the reminder.
Comment by Amy R. (October 30, 2007 @ 12:37 pm )
Congratulations Barbara and Carmen on your #7s. Carmen, you will have to change your blog name.
I just reread this post and thought, “I don’t keep my eyes open during the part where I yell that I’m dying, do I? I’ll have to ask Greg.” I don’t think I’ve ever worn glasses during labor. You don’t really think I’m one of those quiet ladies who rock sweetly and breath slowly in a rocking chair, do you?
Comment by Amy Scott (October 30, 2007 @ 12:42 pm )
I feel your pain - growing up in the 80’s, I was the Lamest of the Lame, all the time. My parents were older when they adopted me, but I don’t think they were every “with it.” Now as an adult, I find myself (still!) trying to fit in with the cool kids, with trendy glasses and nice clothes for me and my kids. Fortunately for my pocketbook, we have great consignment stores around here, so we can be trendy and frugal.
Comment by Megan (October 30, 2007 @ 1:16 pm )
Amy: ok, so you didn’t get jelly shoes—but did you AT LEAST have big bangs? Because really, all you needed to be cool was a gallon of hairspray and a curling iron!!
Comment by Elizabeth (October 30, 2007 @ 1:39 pm )
I can relate to the broken thing. At five years old, my second child has yet to grow up enough to keep her things neat and put away. It’s a big job for this Mama to stay on top of her. She just got glasses this year, and quite impressively, has only lost them once. But, I’m sure that the day is coming when they’ll break, everything does.
Oh, and I had jellies, it always bugged me when the pebbles from the playground would get stuck in the bottom. And, when I was young, I was gonna marry Michael Jackson.
Comment by Kendra (October 30, 2007 @ 1:53 pm )
Interestingly, I did usually have the cool stuff growing up, and (as a result?) was firmly ensconced in the Cool Crowd. I had never made the connection before, but this post reminded me that it was when, in college, I found Rich Mullins, and soon after was awakened to Christ, that material things and the strenuous quest to stay in the In Crowd lost some of their charm (I say ’some’ because we’re probably never completely free of it). Thanks as usual for your whimsical depth. It’s challenging and delightful to read. That “If I Stand” will be in my head all day is an added bonus!
Comment by Patti (October 30, 2007 @ 2:09 pm )
How true, Elizabeth…when my kids look at our wedding pictures, they always want to know how I could get my hair to stay up like that! BTW Elizabeth…I stopped by your blog and saw your preggo pic…are you SURE there’s two babies in there? You look gorgeous! I was so big by that point and I only carried one at a time.
Amy, when we were having our 3rd, my toddler broke my glasses, too. BOTH arms broke off! The really bad part was I couldn’t replace them so I used black electrical tape to hold them together by binding the arms onto the lenses at the sides (I only wore them at night when I took my contacts out). But that made for weird vision disturbances with part of my peripheral being cut off so I went to clear packing tape, which worked great (relatively speaking, of course). If I fell asleep in bed reading and they fell off…they’d just flatten right out and in the morning, I’d just reshape them. They really ought to design something like that. Oh, the joys of being broke. That is so beyond not cool, but we get a good laugh out of it when it gets brought up.
My trick in the 80’s was taking worn out Guess jeans that were practically being given away at yard sales, ripping off the tags and resewing them onto my Kmart jeans. It worked too!
Comment by Ginny (October 30, 2007 @ 2:18 pm )
Elizabeth, Of course I had big bangs, sealed with Aqua-Net.
Ginny, Very smart Guess jean trick. Good thing I didn’t think of it back then!
Comment by Amy Scott (October 30, 2007 @ 2:37 pm )
Jelly shoes?! I had those, too. And we never got the latest stuff either until every other kid in the country already had it and the price had dropped substantially. For example, when my brother finally got an Atari (anyone remember that video game?), it was outdated and all the other kids had moved on to Nintendos! Thanks, Amy, for bringing back some memories.
Comment by terry (October 30, 2007 @ 2:43 pm )
Ginny: most people say the same thing about how small i am for carrying twins. and it’s true. i’m not huge. not for lack of eating, though. for some reason, i’m just not gaining tons with this pregnancy–maybe cuz i’m building two?
sewing guess labels on kmart jeans—what a fantastic trick! instead of being resourceful like you, i sat around and begged my parents to buy me a pair.
they never did.
they did, however, supply Aqua Net. Or as my dad called it: ‘Expoxy Net.”
lol!
Comment by Elizabeth (October 30, 2007 @ 2:49 pm )
Praying for you as you walk through these last days… which seem soooo very long, I know. Being now 15 weeks out from the birth of our sixth, I hardly remember what pregnancy was like. Isn’t the Lord good that way?
Comment by Lady Why (October 30, 2007 @ 7:11 pm )
My father was right there with the Beta recorder too. I was not the line leader when it came to the “it” things either. I have never desired to go back to that time. i love my life now and am more comfortable with who God is making me.
Blessings,
Debbie aka The Real World Martha
Comment by Debbie (October 31, 2007 @ 8:50 pm )
At least you can use your toddler as an excuse. I broke my own glasses all by myself last year on Thanksgiving Day. I am a bad enough cook without the complications of being half-blind on top of it! (Yes, I meet the legal requirements for half-blind without my specs.)
I had to overcome my phobia of being caught in a mall the day after Thanksgiving (I am the antithesis of a shopaholic) and find an optometrist that was actually open. They managed to rig up my old glasses while I waited for a new pair that took two weeks to arrive.
Comment by Tammy (November 5, 2007 @ 9:37 am )