Baby journal: Entry #2
Saturday, Nov 10, 2007
There are a lot of sinners in the Bible, and I have a lot in common with them. Since I share in their human condition, I share in their stupidity, suffering, and saving grace as well. In some instances, I’ve walked in their very shoes. I never in a million years, however, would’ve thought I’d have the opportunity to know what Jacob felt like after working 7 years for something and then waking up one morning knowing you’d have to do it all over again. (If you missed that week in Sunday School, it’s in Genesis 29.)
I can’t let the Baby Journal pine away here without telling you about The Dream.
The night before the due date (which we’ve already discussed has come and gone), I took a Phenergan so that I could get ready for the big day (that never happened, remember). I couldn’t face the big day exhausted and nauseous, so I figured it was a good move. Phenergan was my first-trimester savior, but I try to go au natural when I can. The side effect is a deep sleep. I’m not sure if it really takes away the nausea or just knocks you out so you can’t feel it, but regardless, you sleep well.
So, I dreamt that I was newly pregnant again. Upon hearing the news, I informed the informer that I’d sadly miscarry the baby because I was about to deliver this one. “Oh no you won’t,” she replied–and here’s the kicker– “You just start all over again tomorrow.”
I waved the white flag of surrender and plopped my head back down on the pillow. Have mercy.
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That dream just cracks me up. I am 25 1/2 weeks along and it does feel never ending doesn’t it? I am huge (much larger than with our first), uncomfortable already, having contractions daily (they aren’t doing anything, praise the Lord) and am on an every 2 week visit with my OB and an every 4 week visit with my perinatologist. Sigh.
I promise, every woman that has ever gotten pregnant since Eve has delivered her child. This too shall pass (sorry, no pun intended. That sounded much more noble in my brain.).
Comment by Kari (November 10, 2007 @ 5:00 pm )
Poor Amy! Aren’t you glad sometimes to awaken and realize it is just a dream!!!
Comment by Rhonda (November 10, 2007 @ 5:08 pm )
Ooohhhhhh! Amy! That’s such an exhausting dream to have at this point of the game!!!! May baby come soon!
Comment by shawnda (November 10, 2007 @ 5:12 pm )
Amy - I’m feeling your pain. Christian is just two months old so all the struggles are still fresh in my mind. Right now I honestly don’t know how on earth I’d get through it if I suddenly had it all to do over agian. I think I’d just curl up in a ball and wait to die, if you want the honest truth. But looking at him now…it’s just so worth it and I know if God chooses to bless uswith another baby, it’ll be worth it again. I’m praying for you to get (quickly and smoothly!) to the other side!
Comment by Shannon Miller (November 10, 2007 @ 5:41 pm )
((hugs)) Amy!! Keep on, and many prayers!
Comment by Brea (November 10, 2007 @ 6:42 pm )
I had a pregnancy dream that I gave birth to a cat and the doctors told me that they had just wanted to make sure I could handle labor before I gave birth to a human. And that dream was without drugs. One friend had a dream about man-killing dolphins who were after her children when she was expecting her 7th.
Comment by christy (November 10, 2007 @ 6:43 pm )
Several weeks before I was due with the giant baby, I started dreaming my cycles were back–you know fertile and ready to have a baby again. Nightmarish. He’s 9 months now and I’m a little less freaked out about the possibility of doing it all over again.
I’m so sorry you’re still taking the phenergan. My oldest was the only one I took it with to the end. I skipped the day I was induced. Blah.
It’s just gotta end soon. The Sunday before I had Simeon, I went forward to kneel for communion. I prayed very earnestly–Please don’t let me be here next week–please oh please have mercy! He was born on Wednesday. Maybe you could try it tomorrow?
Comment by Lyn (November 10, 2007 @ 8:14 pm )
I’m the wife of a pastor. Before one of our children was born, I had a dream that he was born out on the sidewalk in front of the church. I hope that doesn’t happen to you tomorrow, though perhaps that’d be better than having to wait even longer?
I ended up just not going to church when I was past my due date (EVERY time), because I got tired of the gasps: “You haven’t had that baby yet?!?!” (Obviously.) Maybe it’s because I look like I’m ready to deliver about halfway through my pregnancies - so it seems long to everyone else…
Comment by Sheila (November 10, 2007 @ 9:13 pm )
Well, Amy, I am one of the many who has checked your blog numerous times today, wondering if there’s been any progress. Have mercy, indeed!
I have to tell you that while I was popping over, I followed some links and found this cheeky quote:
“Regarding giving birth to children… after so many, eventually all you have to do is just cough or sneeze and there you go… out comes baby.”
I bristled at that, because I was thinking (constantly) about you today, and didn’t see the humour at all. You can go to my blog if you want to read what I wrote.
http://grannymom.blogspot.com/
Maybe I am just too serious, but I get tired of folks making light of the very real work of carrying, birthing, nursing, and nurturing children.
But, hey, I’d be happy if all YOU have to do is cough, or sneeze, and out comes baby.
Still praying for you,
Janet
Comment by Janet (November 10, 2007 @ 9:32 pm )
Because I know you well, I could so clearly just picture you in the throes of your dream AND declaring, “have mercy!” I laughed SOOOO hard when I read this!! A great big hug to you and extras for Greg and your precious sweeties. (McGregor still allows them, right?!?)Love you much.
Comment by Paula (November 10, 2007 @ 9:44 pm )
I had that dream that I birthed a cat….so strange!
I’ve also had the dream that the baby was born and immediately began acting like a two year old, climbing up and throwing things out of drawers, etc.
I think I’ve had all of the dreams.
Comment by Holly (November 10, 2007 @ 10:08 pm )
Sounds like a scene straight out of Groundhog Day. There you go, back to the being straight out of the movies again!
I know how you feel with the Phenergan. I took my Zofran up until thee day Hope was born. Within minutes of her birth I said, “Thank-you Lord, no more morning sickness.” Then I got bronchitis 3 days later. Go figure. Hang in there girl.
Comment by Michelle (November 10, 2007 @ 10:52 pm )
Oh Amy, I am praying for the Lord’s mercy on you. I am praying for perseverance and strength for however long is left of this pregnancy and for your labor and delivery.
Comment by Mary Beth (November 11, 2007 @ 12:32 am )
Forgive me–I’m giggling.
I’m so glad it doesn’t work that way!
OK Baby Scott–it’s time to shift your little rear into gear and make your mommy happy!
Comment by Margaret (November 11, 2007 @ 12:54 am )
Awesome! That beats the numerous dreams I have when I am pregnant that my child is born a toddler and I miss his entire babyhood.
Just hold on, you know that baby can’t stay in there forever!
Prayers are going up for you.
Comment by Melynda (November 11, 2007 @ 2:36 am )
ROFL!!!! That’s hilarious. At least to me…maybe not to you…..yet.
According to my daughter (when she was 7) you get pregnant drinking pregnancy tea, so beware!
Love,
Becca
Comment by Becca (November 11, 2007 @ 1:56 pm )
You haven’t posted yet today… hoping and praying that’s a GOOD sign!
Comment by Carly (November 11, 2007 @ 10:23 pm )
Don’t pregnant women always have the weirdest dreams!! I can’t even mention some of the strange ones I have had, or people would think I was crazy.
Praying your baby comes ASAP.
Blessings,
Amanda
Comment by Amanda Axelby (November 12, 2007 @ 4:19 am )
Just an update….
Nothing new here except the same prodromal labor. 10:09 a.m. EST. on Monday.
That’s all for now.
Comment by Amy Scott (November 12, 2007 @ 11:09 am )
Thanks for updating, . I check your blog WAY too many times a day!
Comment by Holly (November 12, 2007 @ 11:59 am )
darn! i was hoping that the lack of posting meant the baby had arrived! time for another toffee nut frappaccino, eh? maybe this time with an extra shot? just to get things going, ya know….

Comment by Elizabeth (November 12, 2007 @ 12:54 pm )
I’m 35 weeks along and still taking my morning sickness meds as well. Phenergen didn’t work well for me…I don’t think it actually gets rid of the nausea, just makes you sleepy (like you wondered). Zofran though, works WONDERS for me. I take it every night because I can’t keep my prenatal vitamins down without it. Just curious, was the nausea this bad with ALL your pregnancies or just this one?? This is my first and I’m desperately hoping the rest will go much smoother.
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I have heard that every pregnancy is different, and while it’s true for most people, I never follow the textbook. I’ve had nausea and vomiting with every pregnancy, but that doesn’t mean you will. Look into a liver cleanse and treatments after you deliver and finish nursing (if you choose to nurse the baby). This pregnancy has been different for me in that it’s much, much worse than any of the previous pregnancies…
Hang in there. It is as much a mental challenge as a physical one.
Comment by Amy Scott (November 13, 2007 @ 12:21 pm )
Oh, good luck. I hope your baby comes soon!
God bless,
Sallie
Comment by Sallie (November 13, 2007 @ 1:12 pm )