What makes a good Christmas?
Monday, Dec 17, 2007
Economists say that it’s going to be a “bad” Christmas. Sales are down, fueled by anxiety about everything from the mortgage debacle to oil prices. I like a strong economy as much as the next guy, and the market was bad to us this year. But will Christmas really be a disaster? Maybe we should measure a successful holiday season by diminishing divorce, suicide, and child abuse rates. Maybe then we wouldn’t need to band-aid our loneliness with more debt. Christmas cookies, footie pajamas, hot cocoa, a fire, carols playing in the background… nobody fighting…that’s what I’m talkin’ about.
Last night was our church’s annual Christmas play. The old story was told again by our little ones: Mary and Joseph, God’s Son sent to us in a manger, and angels singing for the redemption of mankind. We need Jesus, they reminded us. Ain’t that the truth.
Afterward, Greg and I tucked our brood into bed, and we wrapped a couple of gifts. The temperatures finally dropped from the 80’s to the 60’s and we were able to turn off the air conditioning. None of the lights have gone out on the Christmas tree, and when they do, it’ll be the ones in the back. One can hope. Funny how your priorities change over time.
My four oldest. They used a baby doll for Jesus instead of our newborn. She cries too much for the “no crying he made” kind of Jesus. Plus, my preschooler noted, “She’s a GIRL and Jesus is a BOY!”
Two wiseman and a chief priest.
Make that two wise guys and the court jester.
“This present is for me, and I’m going to LOVE it.” I hope so.
Speaking of Christmas cookies…
…who let the toddler down?! Guess who the dog loves best.
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Good thoughts, Amy. And, of course, very cute pictures
Wanted to say that I was introduced to your blog through the HSBA nominations page. Also wanted to tell you that I’ve subscribed since then. You have a good thing going
Blessings,
Jacci
Comment by JacciM (December 17, 2007 @ 1:21 pm )
What a beautiful family!
Comment by SmallWorld (December 17, 2007 @ 1:24 pm )
You always know just how to put things!
Comment by Terri (December 17, 2007 @ 1:42 pm )
Ah, the HSBA? Yes, that would the contest wherein my VERY OWN HUSBAND DIDN’T EVEN VOTE FOR ME. Yeah, that one!
Comment by Amy Scott (December 17, 2007 @ 2:12 pm )
Great pictures!! Beautiful children… I especially love the Christmas cookie face!!
And, I have to add, that’s one gorgeous boxer!
(I’m a sucker for boxers!)
Comment by Lady Why (December 17, 2007 @ 2:16 pm )
Thank you for sharing such precious pictures and wise thoughts. Praying that you have a blessed Christmas!
Comment by Christine (December 17, 2007 @ 2:17 pm )
Good Gravy.
Your little Rebekah (Is that her name?) is an incredible mix of your husband and you. Wow. She is CUTE! Actually - they’re all VERY CUTE!
Comment by Holly (December 17, 2007 @ 2:26 pm )
Precious babies, Amy!! I love the court jester pic, and what dog doesn’t love a cookie-covered little one??
Comment by Brea (December 17, 2007 @ 2:30 pm )
Holly, There is a funny story about Rebekah. When she was about six months old, I had her with me when I ran into some folks we’d only been recently acquainted with. (This was while we were in California for his work for 7 months.) They said, “Oh my goodness! We know who you are and who your husband is because you have the baby with you! Is he the tall guy with the dark hair?!” (Yes.)
Rebekah is Greg’s female version.
Comment by Amy Scott (December 17, 2007 @ 2:33 pm )
So true! That was the message at our church as well. It’s sad to see that society is more gung ho about all the parties and presents than remembering that Jesus is the reason for the season.
Many Blessings!
Comment by Laura (December 17, 2007 @ 2:35 pm )
Amy,
Your children have such darling faces.
Yes, even with icing all over their fingers.
Comment by Andrea (December 17, 2007 @ 2:56 pm )
Amy, this is too cute. And I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments on a successful Christmas. Hope yours is wonderful.
Blessings,
Amanda
Comment by Amanda Axelby (December 17, 2007 @ 3:33 pm )
Cute pics and I also agree with everything you’ve said here. I hear how much people are spending on Christmas sometimes and can’t help but think they just don’t get it. *not that giving presents is bad at all* It’s the small things that are treasures in my mind at Christmas and I hope others hold on to that too!
Comment by Deanna (December 17, 2007 @ 4:12 pm )
Amy,
Such beautiful children!
Merry Christmas!
Comment by Dene (December 17, 2007 @ 10:08 pm )
Love the flowers in the mason jar!!! Those are my kind of vases!
Comment by Kelly (December 17, 2007 @ 10:57 pm )
Cute kids!!! Thanks for sharing the pics! That doggy looks like a Boxer. They are so good with kids, aren’t they? Hope you have a Merry Christmas!
Comment by Jana (December 18, 2007 @ 1:34 am )
Good story to reminds us about the truth of Christmas.
Pictures are great.
Enjoy your last Christmas in Florida.
Comment by Tammy (December 18, 2007 @ 7:05 am )
Congradulations Amy. You won the Weekly Blog Giveaway contest from Heart of Wisdom’s Blog.
See the announcement at http://heartofwisdom.com/blog
Please email Robin at Heartofwisdom.com with your snail mail address so we can ship you the book.
Let us know how you like the book. Blessings and thank you for joining the contest.
Comment by Robin Sampson (December 18, 2007 @ 10:40 am )
I love the picture of your little boy … as a mom of four boys … that site is not unknown around here!
brooke
Comment by brooke (December 18, 2007 @ 11:56 am )
Every Daddy needs a little kid that looks just like him.
Must make his heart swell! My husband always jokes that he hopes our girls just don’t get his legs.
But I see you in her, too.
Comment by Holly (December 18, 2007 @ 2:21 pm )
I wouldn’t normally do this, but here is something that was just sent to me which added to my Christmas in a purely “that was really brilliant” kind of way. Maybe it could make your sideblog links…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fe11OlMiz8
Okay, so I am so lame that I can’t figure out how to make that link real…anyway, it is fantastically musical and very clever… hope you like it!
And Merry Christmas (9 weeks to go over here…looking like the Goodyear blimp.)
Comment by Barbara (December 19, 2007 @ 10:00 am )
I got so excited as I read that you one this weeks give away because I only recently found out about your blog through the HSBA and Kim C…. I was like no way, I know that blog (sort of–smile).
So I am delurking to say:
You inspire me and I enjoy your writing about life, homeschooling, family and faith.
Congratulations on your winnings and
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Looking forward to reading more in 2008!
Comment by Anitz (December 19, 2007 @ 10:15 am )
Adorable children and great post! Merry Christmas. Sunshine
Comment by sunshine (December 19, 2007 @ 5:15 pm )
Have a Blessed Christmas!
Comment by Stephanie Kok (December 19, 2007 @ 5:30 pm )
It is strange for me to try and imagine a warm December
Must get my front door fixed next year so the air doesn’t blow in! Have not wrapped any presents yet…eeek! Best wishes to your dear family for a happy, peaceful and toasty toed Christmas!
Comment by Susanna (December 20, 2007 @ 8:46 am )
Thank you for the pics, adorable children! When I first started reading here, your next to youngest girl was tiny, look at her now!
Have a great Christmas!
Comment by osohappy (December 21, 2007 @ 6:59 am )
Amen! This year we need to take it down meaning slow down. All of the hustle and bustle just makes for anxiety and snapping at my family for the perfect holiday? OK, yelling at them to smile for the camera so we will have great memories captured, now that makes sense. They will remember the yelling! I just want to do what I can to make it nice, but simple. Glorying in the manager, praising Him for the cross, being in awe of His resurrection and waiting for His return. My precious gifts surround me…my husband and children just enjoying each other.
This time of year can be hard, I lost both my parents, my dad on Christmas Eve, 25 years this year. To us kids it was yesterday. I was blessed with wonderful parents. Funny I never remember really what we got on Christmas as much as the warmth of the time we all were together. We have fractures in our family loved ones very ill, some of us will not be at our table this year. We lost my father in-law this past April. Side note: We took care of him the last week of his life in our home. Sixteen hours before his death he gave his life to the Lord, Amen it was beautiful. Anyway, as I think of these trials and saddeness I am comforted by the thought that my Father in heaven sees all my tears and my prayers that are wordless through my tears. I take joy and find amazement that that baby in the manger will someday wipe away all our tears.
Have a Great Christmas!
Maryanne
Comment by Maryanne (December 21, 2007 @ 2:47 pm )
I just wanted to leave you a message to say I love your blog. i have been reading it for some time now and just love how you word things. YOu have some beautiful blessings there as well and congrats on your new one!
Visit my blog if you ever have time-lol yeah right what is time. I have 5 kids myself
Comment by Tiffany (December 21, 2007 @ 7:59 pm )
Wow - you are a busy mama!
Comment by Cari (December 23, 2007 @ 3:02 pm )
I’m late reading this, but they are OH SO ADORABLE!… I had to comment. I love them all lined up in their Christmas play costumes. My three year old is the female version of my husband as well.
Comment by Allison (January 7, 2008 @ 1:23 am )